Update from the pushover

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Registered: 09-02-2004
Update from the pushover
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 3:37pm

Alright everyone...we had a long talk and he has opened up about his recent funk. Lots of stuff w/work, his kids(they live in another state) and a mom he's caring for. He has promised me this isn't about anyone else and promises he still not only loves me but is in love with me.


That being said...I'm going to stick it out a bit.


Making a nice dinner for us (look at some suggestions on the link below if you are cooking tonight)


http://allrecipes.com/HowTo/Five-Valentines-Day-Dinners-for-Two/Detail.aspx


I gotta tell you though, if this dinner doesn't snap him out of his funk....i don't know.


I plan to cook @ his place so I'll send him to the gym while I get dinner going, then change into a nice dress for when he's back...I'm hoping to re-energize us tonight. Wish me luck!


~M.


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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 3:46pm

Yummy! oh you are one ambitious cook! Looks great....let us know how dinner turns out!


As for your b/f (BTW...do yo uhave a nickname for him on this board or shall we continue to call him the bf?) I hope that things simmer up tonight and he just lets its all go and you are able to connect 100 percent. Now KEEP that line of talking open!


Good luck.. Yay for things looking up for you!


~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 09-02-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 3:52pm

Thanks, Pac Sun!


Mmmmmmm.....we shall call him..........The Rock!

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 3:57pm
The Rock, I love it! .....is there a story behind that name?
~Pacific~



Edited 2/14/2008 3:57 pm ET by pacific_sun
~Pacific~
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 4:00pm

A man knows love through his stomach! So if you can't get that and a sexy get up to get him to stand at attention and to truly see how wonderful and talented you are then the man has a ton of rocks in his head. LOL


Have a wonderful evening sweetie

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Registered: 09-02-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 4:31pm
Lol...yeah, lots of people think he resembles the Rock.
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Registered: 09-02-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 4:33pm

Ha! Ha!

You are right. Rocks in his head would be quite appropriate!

I'll post tomorrow!

Enjoy your evening too!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:09pm

Of course MY filthy mind went somewhere ELSE with that nickname

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 9:34am

Wow - you did great to have such a good attitude - how did your meal and evening turn out?

Welcome BTW - was hoping I said that to you in another post!! Forgive if I didn't!!