Update: Second date with S

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Update: Second date with S
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Tue, 05-29-2007 - 2:04pm

So Friday night I was able to get a night off and let Mr. S know. He again didn't have plans even up till 4pm that day and at 7:30 he called back with a place to meet up. We met up at a bar/restaurant and actually had something to eat. The conversation was easy and we decided to leave as the restaurant was turning into a club. We decided to drive to his house, drop off my car and head to a different bar. So we went to his house and I saw some of his photography, chatted for a bit and went to a bar about 1 block from his house. The bar was seedy but lots of fun characters. We talked and played darts.

Here is the thing. It was a good night but there was almost a weird feeling of over-familiarity. It almost felt like we had been a couple for a while or something, and not in that good way. It was like how you feel when things get so familiar that there isn't any passion behind it....I don't know but it was weird. The good night kiss was one of those kisses that almost felt like you do out of habit. I wish I had a better way to explain it.

In any event, it was good and fun but not a lot of passion there. Plus he had some major red flags such as...talking about other girls/relationships A LOT....getting coke (as in the drug) from time to time...and being a really bad painter...lol...and emphasizing that he thinks that being a d!ck is a good way to get chicks to be interested.

I think this one is a NEXT!

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Registered: 01-05-2004
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 2:07pm

Oh Lord! Yes I definitely would say he's a NEXT! lol

Hang in there!

Jennifer

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Tue, 05-29-2007 - 2:14pm

UMMM....yeah...being a jerk is SUCH a great way to attract girls....good one!

~Mel~ saying NEXT!!!!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 2:23pm
Yes - that is a NEXT!
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Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 05-29-2007 - 7:56pm

If the lack of passion didn't NEXT him for you, the drug references certainly should!

But then, that's me, and I'm not into having a cokehead, pothead, or any other type of "drug" person around my kids.

Since what I am into is a serious relationship, I think anyone who uses, even recreationally, is out for me.

Moody, too good for her own good sometimes


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Registered: 02-05-2007
Wed, 05-30-2007 - 6:52pm

Moody you're totally correct. Now here is the kicker....I kicked my EXH out FOR DRUGS!!! and we had a long discussion about this, S and I!!!

Ridiculous, well at least I'm not as naive as I was then. PHEW!

Thank you for the resounding NEXT! Sometimes it's just nice to know that you got backup!

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Registered: 11-20-2003
Thu, 05-31-2007 - 10:07am

The drugs would have been the clincher for me. No way, no how.

A rather late, but still very resounding "NEXT".

Clem xx

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 05-31-2007 - 1:27pm
To bad you had to stick out the date, because of the one car thing. I would have been OUTTA their the second I heard the word drugs. Geesh! What a LOSER! Why don't we have a loser icon?? L-)
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 12:38am

Why DON'T we have a loser icon????


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