Update on Sisterly Love

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Update on Sisterly Love
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 5:32pm

Ok, Pac~Sun asked for an update – so here you ALL go! LOL!!!


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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:53pm

<Isnt it just amazing how much people can disappoint us when we are just living our lives and assuming the best in everyone?>

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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 12:37am

I give you soooo much credit for leading by example. In spite and anger you COULD buy into everything your niece is saying just so that you would have one up on sis...but you know better, which is why you have a great heart.


I would never knock anyone's religon either, but when it comes to hypocracy and one sided thinking, and intolerance to see another's

~Pacific~
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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 1:59am

Hey Moon. I ALWAYS respect people's choices. I don't pretend to fully know the dynamics, the history and everything else to know why we do what we do, etc.

I am sorry that I came across as judgmental for that is not my intent.

I look to be careful in just sharing my own experiences and viewpoints.

Hugs to you,
Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 2:20am

Hmmm... that certainly is invading on your privacy for her to act that way.


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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 8:21am
Here here to Alison for providing the perfect picture!
"You're a great mom, so forget the droolings of a jealous ankle biter. "
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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 9:04am

OK Moon...Had to chime in here since my mom and your sis would get along GREAT!!!!!! Perhaps we are related in some weird cosmic way. Mom and I have been having it out over and over again for not so similar reasons but all in all it still sucks the big one. So heres my take on sis...


I try to see where they (the lunatics all up in my junk...LOL thats what I call family these days) are coming from. Like Mark said I like to think it stems from concern but truth be told I thinks its more selfish reasons. I think they choose to deflect. You know by putting the focus on you and whats going on in your life (as a terrible mom for moving in the direction of happiness....WHAT ARE YOU THINKING FOR TRYING TO BE HAPPY THAT IS A NO NO) they dont have time to sit and think about how there lives are not "perfect". Its a crappy thought that people actually do this but I really think it. I think some people are just inclined to create drama for others and watch it unfold to give their lives purpose.


Who knows...and if this doent help tell your sister shes just a "stupid

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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 9:20am

Oh, Mark, you little cutie - you didn't come across as judgemental at all!!!

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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 9:37am

I read this yesterday <When you judge others, you do not define them, you define yourself.> and it really struck a chord with me.

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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 9:49am

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Tue, 02-26-2008 - 9:54am