Update -well, kind of

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Update -well, kind of
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 12:57pm

Ugh, no nakie wild time for me this past weekend. TM was miserable w/allergies and stressed out about work issues, taxes etc. So we did not get together at all. I kind of freaked out about that. Rationally, I knew it was just bad timing and all, but it's been more than a week since we've seen one another and I am getting squirrelly.

I tried to stay really busy and S21 came home so that helped keep my mind occupied. But dang, I have to admit TM has gotten into my heart far more than I expected at this point and I really miss him. We had been seeing one another every 4 or 5 days the whole past month then suddenly every time we try to get together it fell through, 3 times in a row! So instead of sending him some clingy girl email I wrote out all my frustrations in my journal and was able to wait until he called Sun. We had a nice long conversation and we've got plans for Thurs. This time I am going to drive to his place for the first time.

When S21 was here he was telling me about his GF issues and I laughed and said I was trying to be zen about TM's recent flakiness. S21 laughed and said not to even try, it was a guy thing that girls just don't get, one of those intrinsic differences between the sexes and we're supposed to be different or life would be boring. Ah yes, S21 has his own unique take on life that I always find interesting.

And speaking of S21 and the GF, I went to dinner w/them and GF's parents last night. So that's a milestone as a parent I did not expect at this point.

QB

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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 2:41pm

Awe

Rosecolouredspecs
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 3:30pm

sounds like things are going well.

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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 4:47pm

Yes, I need another shazam moment big time LOL
And I feel like a middle schooler, I am infatuated.

QB

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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 4:50pm

I sure was not ready for the dinner w/ the parents thing, but S21 and his GF have been together a year and have known one another since 1st grade. I met her mom previously when we volunteered at the elementary school together, but that was a looong time ago. They are planning on moving to CO together by the end of May so it was good to get her parent's perspective on all this.

QB

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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 7:52pm
Smart woman! Writing in your journal will keep things in perspective. Now you have Thurs to look forward to.
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Mon, 04-19-2010 - 9:39pm
Awwwww, infatuation, LOL. That is so cute, and awesome!! Enjoy the butterfly feelings. I'm sure there will be plenty of shazammm moments for you guys. Heehee! Yay Queenie!!!