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|Tue, 07-06-2010 - 12:01am|
I've now been with C for almost 5 months. We talk every day, see each other three or more times a week. This past weekend we spent with his father at his dad's vacation home. He tells stories about my kids, explains my ex, talks about things 'we' like when we are with other people. He wrote his son a letter, included messages from the family, with me being the first 'message'(though I actually had nothing to do with writing the letter!)
However, the 'romance' (not that there was ever that much) seems to have dwindled quite a bit. I feel like we're an old married couple (without the arguing!) sometimes. On the one hand, I don't mind it because it feels more natural. On the other hand, I do like feeling adored, and shown it.
I don't want to complain to him about this because, as I said, I don't feel the need for constant affirmation, but I would like a little more affection.
Is this sort of early for this stuff? I mean I don't worry about him running off looking for something new (I'm with him pretty much all the time, and when I'm not he's usually on the phone with me!) but I worry that after a few more months I'll be taken for granted, then I'll start getting mad and hurt.
Also, I've read that, for some guys, meeting the parents is meaningless. I've also read that for some men it's huge. Any input, anyone?