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| Fri, 02-17-2006 - 1:57pm |
SO FOB/SOB AND I HAD A VERBAL AGREEMENT THAT ON FAMILY BIRTHDAYS WE'RE GOING TO LET DAMIAN(2), GO TO EACH BIRTHDAY PARTY FOR A FEW HOURS, WELL TODAY IS MY MOM'S AND WHEN I TOLD HIM I'D PICK HIM UP AT 5 AND DROP HIM OFF AT 8,HE SAID YES...WHILE AT THE GYM HE CALLS ME TO TELL ME NEVER MIND B/C HE FORGOT THEY ALREADY HAD PLANS TO GO VISIT HIS COUSIN WHO HAD A BABY A FEW MONTHS AGO.....THEY ALSO ASKED ME ON WEDNESDAY IF HE CAN GO WITH THEM ON MONDAY TO SEE THE GLOBETROTTER'S AND I SAID YES EVEN THOUGH I HAVE TO HAVE HIM READY BY 9AM WHEN THAT'S THE TIME HE GETS UP.....AND IT'S NOT EVEN HIS DAY, AND ALSO ON WEDNESDAY HE WAS SUPPOSED TO PICK HIM UP AT 11 FOR HIS REGULAR VISIT, AND HE SHOWED UP AT 12:45 AT MY JOB!! I HAD TO TAKE DAMIAN TO WORK AND THAT WAS STRESSFUL B/C I'M A HAIRSTYLIST AND I HAVE APPOINTMENTS....ETC,ETC.....
I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYMORE..IT'S TOO MUCH NOT TO MENTION I HAD ALREADY HYPED UP DAMIAN TO THE IDEA THAT HE WAS GETTING BIRTHDAY CAKE....I'M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING ACTING LIKE A B**CH MYSELF AND CALL HIM SUNDAY NITE TO TELL HIM NEVER MIND ABOUT MONDAY....
...I'M ALSO TRYING TO SEE THE BRIGHT SIDE OF THINGS SINCE TODAY'S THE DAY I CAN GO OUT ON MY FIRST DATE!!!! SO I'LL HAVE MORE TIME TO GET READY (& NERVOUS), SO I'M WAITING FOR HIS CALL TO CONFIRM, BUT THE IDEA IS A LATE DATE SINCE THAT'S WHAT OUR SCHEDULES PERMIT, TO A HOUSTON NITE CLUB NEAR DOWNTOWN, I HAVE THIS REALLY CUTE BROWN SPAGHETTI STRAP DRESS, I HAVEN'T WORN IN YEARS SO MAYBE I SHOULD GO SEE IF THAT FITS LOL, IF NOT WHITE DRESS PANTS WIT' A PINK TOP, HM... I HOPE ONE OF THOSE FITS, AND I HOPE HE CALLS AND DOESN'T LEAVE ME HANGING B/C I'D BE GETTING ALL EXCITED FOR NOTHING...BUT IF NOT I HAVE PLAN B, WHERE I GOT INVITED TO THE SAME CLUB WIT' A CO-WORKER TONITE, AND PLAN C WHERE AN X-COWORKER SAYS SHE WANTED TO GO OUT TO DRINK SO SHE CAN INTRODUCE TO THIS GUY SHE THINKS I'D LIKE, SO EITHER WAY I THINK I'LL BE GOING OUT...WISH ME LUCK GUYS AND KEEP YOUR FINGERS CROSSED THAT I DON'T GET STOOD UP......THAT WOULD BE JUST ADD TO MY VENTING...........AGH!!!!

About the FOB... flexibility works both ways.
Roxanne,
Sorry you have to deal with that, I know it can be frustrating.
Good luck on your date!!
Sorry to hear about the stuff with your fob - he sounds like me me me me and no thoughts as to what you need or have to go through. I know you cannot change that - but all you can do is just think about what works for you and stick to that. It is really bad that you had to take Damian to work - maybe you should focus on that subject and pick your battles and stick to one lesson at a time with fob.
Keep us posted!