A very bootylicious eve w/ CS a FWB

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A very bootylicious eve w/ CS a FWB
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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 9:25am

So you may or may not recall College Style (CS) and how i blew him off after his innuendos blah blah blah...well I revisited the friendship ;0) Ive come to realize that right now I DO NOT want a relationship but a FWB. I know its a slippery slope but I pushed all of the other expectations aside. I think before I was really over analyzing things and him. He and I have been friends for over 20 years and when i stopped forcing myself to examine everything about him and would he make a good "daddy" for DD i finally realized what its about for me right now. I need some grown up girl time, and while i dont have that special someone, its still nice to have a special friend to laugh with and then some...if you catch my drift. And since we are "friends" it was a lot nicer this time around. Ive been so hung up on body image and all the other girly stresses i wasnt allowing myself to enjoy life. I think i finally hit the healing mark. CP is a joke to me and always will be. yes i still cringe every now and again but its not the stabbing pain to the chest. Hes someone else's "problem" now and im relieved. He showed his true colors more than once and im sure when he pokes is overly inflated little head up the courts will see it that way as well...who knows, ill deal with it when it comes. For now my focus is possibly buying a house, enjoying grown up girly time, getting my diet back on track (way to many bowls of icecream and choco chip cookies at night), and taking me back. Its almost a year from the time I left CP...I year of healing and enlightenment. Maybe this is what you all talk about...the bad happens for a reason...Hey i would have never even been able to think about buying a house with CP and if i had who knows the devastation he would have caused...


Back to CS...he is yummy...he was a lifeguard for 20+ years and maintains that bod QUITE well...I know...I CHECKED it out thoroughly last night...tehehehehehe


M - who knew a booty call was a good thing??????? And I made the call....WHOOOOOHOOOOO TO ME!!!!!

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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 12:25pm

OMG Rebecca...i would do a Brazilian if i wasnt scared to DEATH and wayyyyyyyy to freaked by the entire thing...I bet CS would like it though...LOL


I knew youd understand the FWB...as MArtha says "its a good thing" LOL


You know the best part...we snuggled and did the whole "bonding" thing after and then he left...LOL I didnt have to ask him to, he went on his own. Now FP would come over with a bag and want to stay for days...HELLO??? Ugghhh id get sick to my stomach when hed pull up and id see a bag come out of the truck...i like it this way. We even talked about his (CS) inability to commit and his love of his bachelorhood...he assures me im wrong but ive been to his house and seen the bathroom...ewwwwwwwww So we'll have late night calls at my place and he leaves...works for me!

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 12:50pm

Woohooo for the booty call, Mom-Star!!!


I might be in a relationship with Hiker, but we sure do have our "Booty call" dates too. Just a couple of hours, with only one thing in our minds... then he goes back home and I get the place to myself. Works for me!


(I just bought a Cowboys jersey today...) ;-)

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

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"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 1:07pm

I don't know Rebecca... I heard those European guys were INTO hair....

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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 1:07pm

Thank you for the kudos...im proud of myself as well..LOL I do have to say as the day wears on my body is aching in places i forgot you could get aches....Lordy Shrimpy im more out of shape than i thought...LOL WELL WORTH IT THOUGH!!!

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 1:22pm

LOL ewwwwww LOL ewwwwwww


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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 1:46pm
Do you really think GG will care that you are unshaven?
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 1:48pm

I like the idea of having booty calls even with a SO.

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 4:37pm

"Have fun with the jersey!"


Oh, my mind is already cranking with some potential ideas... hehehe And wooohooo that Dallas plays Denver Saturday night! Hmmmmm... ;-)


Mom-Star, if you're sore today, then I'd say you DID have a great time!!! Yahooo! And you know- sometimes the only way to get rid of the soreness is to just do more "workouts" to build up. lol So you better go get MORE.

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Fri, 08-15-2008 - 6:52pm

Good for you mom_star.. You sound full of energy now.


Rebecca.. I agree with other's about "he may not care if you are waxed or not."..Heck even Biker doesnt care ( he has German roots..lol)

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Fri, 08-15-2008 - 7:10pm
Sounds like you are having a great time M!! :o) I can HEAR the smile in your post!
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