Very nice weekend (kinda long)

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Very nice weekend (kinda long)
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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 3:31am
I have to admit since Duck football season started I haven't had a lot of alone time with Duck Fan. His old college friends have been in town some weekends. He has season tickets to the games. He's still been very attentive to me though. We still talk every night. We see each other every day at work. he sends me sweet (or naughty) texts all the time. But still going down to once every two weeks kind bruised my ego a little.
Well we also were working with a guy who was severely sexually harassing me and I stopped dressing as cute as I once did. Duck Fan actually stepped up for me a few times. He's gone now so last week I made sure I looked smoking every day. Thursday I wore and Ally MacBeal length suit to work and more than just Duck Fan took notice.
Friday we had a potluck at work. He made hot wings (which were so amazing my lips were burning for hours) and I made meatballs and he loved them. Said I could cook for him anytime. LOL!
So Friday as I was leaving work one of Duck Fans best friends at work (who wasn't aware of the situation) gave me his number and said we should have a drink this weekend. I told Duck Fan who was having a beer with him that night before our date. He says, "Looks like I am going to have to tell him you are off limits." And he did. At first his friend didn't believe him LOL! But he told him and even said that I was going to see him later that night.
When I got there he told me about his talk with the friend and for some reason him admitting to the friend that we are together really meant something to me. Also he was playing Dave Mathews Band and had lit candles. I basically attacked the guy and we had the most amazing nakie time we've ever had and we've had some darn amazing nakie time. Basically from 8 p.m. to 9 a.m. it was nakie time, cuddle, sleep, nakie time, cuddle, sleep, repeat etc. We also talked a lot. Actually I told him to bundle up for the game so he didn't get sick though I'd probably make him homemade chicken soup again. He said he may just have to wear a tank top and shorts LOL! He also told me that was still one of the sweetest things I ever did for him. We spent a lot of time telling eachother how much we appreciate the nice little things the other does. He recently said he loves sleeping with me in his arms. That was my favorite text ever. We didn't talk last night because it was a late game but he texted me "Good morning Sunshine" today. He does call me sunshine a lot. I really kinda like it. He really spends a lot of time telling me I am beautiful, sweet, sexy, etc. He wants to make sure I know he doesn't take me for granted and says that the fact that I don't nag him about football season cutting into our time and I encourage him to spend time with the guys makes me about the coolest girlfriend ever.
So as I was baking for the bake sale at work tomorrow I made him a few special things and there will be fresh baked muffins for breakfast. He did say he may have to buy all of my baked goods because no-one else deserves them. The way to a mans heart...
Well should be off to bed again. Baby woke up and nursed but she's back out. I kinda look forward to work because I get to see him LOL!
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Mon, 10-13-2008 - 10:10am
Hey now!!
 
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 8:16pm
He had to run an errand before the bake sale and most of my stuff was gone. His friend bought it and said, "You get the girl- I get her brownies." Still he was lucky because I just happened to have extras of everything for him. That's what you get when you sleep with the baker LOL! I made over $100 for United Way which our boss will match with my goods.
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 9:12pm

He sounds awesome!

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 10:00pm
He sounds GREAT! Now .... I have to ask - how do you date & have sex AND are still nursing a baby!?

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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 10:24pm
Well that was last weekend. This weekend is another story but I guess everyone has to be a butthead sometimes LOL! Over all he's a really great guy and I am super lucky. And there are more out there. i know a few.
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 10:42pm
Hey don't worry about being nosy- I am a pretty open person. I pump a lot because I work and so she takes pump milk then. Our date nights usually start at eight or after so I nurse her to sleep or she gets pumped milk from the sitter. Once in a while in a moment of excitement there has been some leakage (or spray) but it doesn't freak Duck Fan out at all. My baby has a different father. My baby is interestingly a product of my first relationship after my marriage which was with my high school sweetheart (We can call him Drummer Boy). Drummer Boy is involved in a sense. I live in Oregon and he lives in California. I left him to move here and got the positive pregnancy test a month later. I couldn't move back though because economically I was struggling to feed the kids out there and out here it has worked out well. Drummer Boy and I are close though and when we go to visit family he spends all of that time with her. He has three living older daughters and one who passed away shortly after our daughter was born. But I mean we spoke last night and we communicate often.
Duck Fan and I have been together since the beginning of June and he is the first relationship I have had in Oregon. When I moved here in October of 2006 I literally just took some time off to heal. I didn't even want sex. Now I will admit he caught my eye when we met and it took him three months to work up the courage to actually ask for my number. I got to his house overnight and as we are usually early risers I am home by breakfast the next morning. Oh and the wait to have sex (Natalia was almost one year old and I hadn't had sex since her conception) was TOTALLY worth it because he really knows what he is doing. Our first time was the best I had ever had up until that point and we've had even better nights since then.
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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 9:08am

lol- Thats me, nosey!

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Mon, 10-20-2008 - 11:55am

I love the name Natalia!!

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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 1:48am
YAY! I am a huge BF supporter as well. I BFed all of my girls for extended time. In fact they quit on their own (except Hannah who was hospitalized at 21 months and when she got out she just didn't go back to it.) Natalia and I are trying to make it to two because the others all quit just before that mark. If it goes beyond that great. I also love that Duck Fan understands that it is important to me to breastfeed and doesn't let the occasional leakage bother him because it is just me being a great mom (his words).
It's weird because I had decided not to date until I was done BFing however when he asked I could not pass him up. I am so glad I didn't either and glad things fell in the right place so I could balance it all.
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Tue, 10-21-2008 - 1:53am
Thanks. She is named after Natalie Wood (real name Natasha- Natalie was the screen name- I combined). When my mom was pregnant Natalie Wood was filming at the VA Hospital which is where my dad works. As a present to my dad (who handled all the filming there) she gave him a baby blanket for his baby on the way. That would be me. Natalia will be the beneficiary of that heirloom.
I also have an Isabella, a Josephine, and a Hannah.
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