want a unique response to the BIG ?

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want a unique response to the BIG ?
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Sun, 10-26-2008 - 5:12pm

As some of you may know from my thursdays post (omg sooo excited and nervous), the BIG question appears fairly imminent.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Sun, 10-26-2008 - 6:19pm

ummmmmmmmm hell freaking yeah!!!???


How's that work for ya?

 
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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-26-2008 - 7:32pm
I likely won't ever hear that question again but it'd be kinda funny to do a victory dance in response. You know spike the ring box like you just made a touchdown.
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Sun, 10-26-2008 - 8:31pm

Ah you are bringing back memories.. As a recent graduate.. I can tell you what I did


I knew Biker will be proposing soon.. Then one day he took me to a disk golf course and we walked around a lot.. I kind of felt he may have the ring that day and was very romanti... but couldnt see any signs of a ring box in any of his pockets..lol..I am so snoopy. I looked for a bulge..


Any ways when we had walked a lot and came to the last hole and sat on a bench.. we were kissing..It was such a nice beautiful day.. He said jokingly.. so will you cook dinner for me forever.. I said I have to think about that.. I felt that he is about to ask.. lol.. After a while he took our a ring from his jeans pocket ( yes there was no ring box),, he had done that on purpose and and then he asked me..


I was so emotional by the time he finished his sentence and couldnt stop tears trickiling down and I hugged him so tight.. he said "so what s your answer".. I said YES OFCOURSE.. lol.. I might have said something more.. But it is all a blur now.. It is a special feeling and I am sure whatever you say he wont remember...He will be also so excited . Anyways, then we sat there on that bench feeling like that was the best day ever.. I took a picture of that bench and asked a guy who came by to take our picture there ..


He told me later on that eh had been carrying the ring around with him for few days and couldnt find a right time. I asked him when were those days and surprisingly I had felt something special on all those days and felt Yeah may be now he is gonna.. He said I got him right.. Just he felt that those place or time were not the best..


Now I am feeling romantic all over again.. I am so hopeless..


I think you dont have to think of anything special to say.. Just do what you feel

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 10-26-2008 - 8:35pm

Now I am feeling romantic all over again.. I am so hopeless..


Then ... GO GET NAKIE!

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sun, 10-26-2008 - 8:39pm

hmmm thats something to think about! lol

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Sun, 10-26-2008 - 11:48pm

It's not the words that matter but how you express your heart. It's not rehearsed but it's authentically in the moment.

Pre-congrats!

Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Sun, 10-26-2008 - 11:53pm
you are right Mark - as usual - however I have recognised that I tend to have a problem with after the event thinking of something perfect that I should have said and by then it is too late.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Mon, 10-27-2008 - 12:05am
I am sure the "something perfect" is what you say in the moment and he would think it would be perfect whatever you say. You can always add the post-perfect perfect acceptance afterwards yes?




We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Registered: 11-25-2007
Mon, 10-27-2008 - 12:23am

very TRUE lol

mom_uk2socal

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Mon, 10-27-2008 - 1:17pm

I knew Biker will be proposing soon.. Then one day he took me to a disk golf course


*Pacs ears perking up*

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