Was worrying last week ...
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Was worrying last week ...
| Mon, 06-16-2008 - 9:02am |
didnt post b/c i wanted to sort it out in my mind & bounce it off a couple of my freinds here privately (thanks girls!)


Wow Rebecca - you have been doing some pretty heavy duty thinking.
We may have to make you the poster girl for over thinking this week. All that angst and the guy is oblivious.Not only that, you really are not all that into him. LOL Good thing you did not call up LB to talk about it.
QB
Ok- ask yourself: which of the following two scenarios would hurt more?
1. you and LB are just friends, no further sex
2. you and LB do nothing together but have sex- no friendship, just sex
I think you can come to depend upon someone for A and B (e.g. sex and companionship), but that doesn't mean you also want C (e.g. marriage or something down that path).
The anxiety wasnt really "heavy duty", although maybe it came off that way in my post.
Yeah, maybe its PMS! lol
& yes! Its a good thing i didnt talk to him about it. THATS what you girls are for!
1. you and LB are just friends, no further sex
2. you and LB do nothing together but have sex- no friendship, just sex
Ok, in all honestly, #1.
Exactly!
That is the perfect FWB - but doesn't mean you would want to marry him - that is a much different scenario. I do understand what you mean. It is fun for now but not for forever. If only forever was that simple.
I guess it didn't help that we were all overanalyzing LB after the bike picture - LOL!! And I do understand about the class/education/lifestyle thing - that is what I didn't like about KM.