We had our talk...

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Registered: 01-19-2006
We had our talk...
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Mon, 04-09-2007 - 1:56pm

Well, my BF of 3 months and I had our first real “talk” on Thursday night. Last week after some great sex, I had blurted out, “what would it take to get this every night for the rest of my life.” And all of a sudden we were put into serious talk mode :) And as it turns out he thought I meant that I was ready for him to move in, which understandably freaked him out a little. And I’m definitely not ready for him to be moving in, I was just saying I hoped it happened some day (I was in a state of ecstasy at the time). So after our talk, everything is cool now. We agreed to continue with the way things are, with the knowledge that living together is a goal sometime off in the future. Meaning that we both want this to work out long term, but that we want to get to know each other and try to do things at a pace that works for both of us. I think we were both happy with that conclusion, and I don’t think anything relationship wise was messed up. In fact we had a great weekend. We spent time together all 3 days. He even helped me babysit on Saturday :) And he was absolutely wonderful with my 6 month old nephew. I just keep falling deeper and deeper for this guy.

Thanks for all the help and encouragement you guys gave me last week. It really helped.

Kristy

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 4:09pm
This news is quite good! Glad we got to share in the story and to hear an outcome like this. Do keep us posted!!
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Registered: 02-08-2006
Mon, 04-09-2007 - 7:38pm

I'm so glad the talk went well, and I hope everything continues to progress smoothly for you. Keep us posted, we love hearing stories!

Moody, glowing


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