We had the "talk"

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We had the "talk"
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Sat, 08-16-2008 - 2:01pm

Oh I had another great date with FTL ( failure to launch!) Guy last night! But we did have "the talk" the sex talk. I knew it was gonna come up with the whole logistical issue of him living at his mom's and me not allowing men over to my house EVER EVER EVER.


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Registered: 06-04-2004
Sat, 08-16-2008 - 9:02pm

Glad you guys had a chance to talk! Hey- there's never anything wrong with some honest heart-to-hearts about the realities of dating. Talking about sex outside of actually having sex- can sometimes seem to be such a mood-killer or "ruins the spontaneity"... but in reality- I've found that it actually helps the spontaneity later because it clears the air of concerns and worries beforehand! So yay for you guys getting that talk out of the way!


I hope you guys have fun once it's finally "time"!

~shrimpy


It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Sat, 08-16-2008 - 11:14pm

the sex talk.... i thought it was a different talk... i like the sex talk myself, too. it helps build the anticipation i think.. but i've heard that if a guy is going to lie about anything, it's going to be his sexual abilities.. Ha Ha.


Why not do "it" at his house.. he's a grown man, it shouldn't concern the parents right.... just put the radio on LOUD.


Looking forward to hearing how it goes.


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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 12:28am
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Why not do "it" at his house.. he's a grown man, it shouldn't concern the parents right.... just put the radio on LOUD." --- you are kidding, right?

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 10:15am

I certainly hope she's kidding!

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Registered: 03-10-2008
Sun, 08-17-2008 - 4:33pm
Grown man or not there is NO WAY I am doing it with him at his mom's house nor does he want to. There is too much ick factor in that let alone privacy issues! And just plain old respect for his mom!
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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 4:47pm

to each his own... but NO i wasn't kidding.


When i was married... and my mom visited... you bet we did "it". When on vacation visiting friends or relatives, did IT. We were discreet, of course. And when my brother and his fiance \ wife lived with me... I'm sure they did "it" too.... No eww factor to me.


In fact, there can be an element of excitement in

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 8:05pm

ICK factor is right!

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Sun, 08-17-2008 - 8:46pm
I understnad your point of view but it might be different in this case from what you described?
I mean she barely knows him yet and she certainly doesnt have a relationship with the mom involved. they arent married or fianceed and they are in her house. it would just seem to negate the whole excitable fear of discovery aspect to me.....but I get the to each his own things as well. Just saying!
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Mon, 08-18-2008 - 12:28am

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Mon, 08-18-2008 - 9:09am
Respect!

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