We talked....

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We talked....
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Wed, 05-21-2008 - 1:08pm
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Registered: 10-24-2006
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 1:24pm

Yay!!!! You handled Bikerguy AWESOME!! I think you have it pegged right, now that you've actually moved on, he's no longer OK with it lol he was only OK with it so long as he thought you were still pining away for him and only him!


And I hear ya on the smoking, its a deal breaker for me too. It's great that NN wants to quit for his health and such. Keep the updates coming things sound great with you!

 

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 2:28pm

Ohhh... smoochin' with the neighbor.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 2:31pm
Haha - I love how YOU are in control in this post - very good way to go. NN sounds promising!
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Registered: 10-09-2005
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 2:42pm

After yours and Moon's advice and the awesome kissin' I knew I had to talk to him about the smoking.

Cat
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Registered: 02-15-2008
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 2:55pm

You Go Girl!!!

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 3:58pm

Being "treasured" is a good thing to hold out for. Don't settle for anyone who doesn't Treasure you!!!!! Or settle for someone you don't treasure in return- just to avoid being alone. Mutual treasuring. That's the key... ;-)


Interesting that Bikerguy is wanting you to himself now that you aren't chasing him! It might be just a little too late... especially if he is only wanting it to be what it was before, and you're wanting more than that.


I agree on the smoking with NN... smoking is a deal-breaker for me, too. I've dated men who smoked some- but eventually that smoke smell is too nasty for me to ignore. And even if they talked alot about quitting, none of the men I knew ever really quit. It's tough, but I hope NN can do it- for his own health. And so you can still keep dating him. LOL ;-)


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 07-14-2007
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 4:02pm
You are handling all of this perfectly.
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 5:05pm

too late for Bikerguy for sure. When you were together, he was kind of distant and non communitave anyway right? He was the one who said HE was OK with no communication over the work weeks, he was the less affectionate one. NN sounds nice and affectionate and attentive. And sounds like you have chemistry with him....nothing like a good kiss! You handled Bikerguy so well, keep it up and let things happen naturally between you and NN. Really it is not Bikerguys business! He did not know what a great woman he had when he had you...too bad!


~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-09-2005
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 5:28pm

NN makes my toes curl!

Cat
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 9:18pm

Wow- how empowered do you feel now??? :)


I like how things are turning out, both with Bikerguy and with NN.


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