This is a "well, duh" article

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This is a "well, duh" article
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 3:57pm

but info we can always be reminded of!


Opposites attract!

By Chelsea Kaplan When you look back on why things ended with your ex, there’s usually a clear reason—or multiple reasons. When looking for a new love, why not avoid repeating past mistakes by seeking out someone who has the opposite attributes as your former spouse? (No really?? I thought I would go for another cheating jack@ss!!)

April

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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 4:05pm

When looking for a new love, why not avoid repeating past mistakes by seeking out someone who has the opposite attributes as your former spouse? (No really?? I thought I would go for another cheating jack@ss!!)

~Pacific~
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 4:06pm
Yes.....ITA!

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 7:52pm
Oh wow lonleymom - this is QUITE good -very original - I have seen a lot of good articles posted and ALWAYS encourage everyone to post them - but this one just takes the cake - it made me laugh a lot!!
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 8:09pm

For the record- BE is the polar opposite of my Ex. They could not be more different!


Same here, Pacific!!! Hiker and my ex are polar opposites, too! But it wasn't like I was intentionally trying to find a polar opposite... it's just that (duh) the polar opposite of my ex IS what matches me the best! No wonder the ex and I clashed so much. We just were not a good match at all.


I'm not sure if I'm a polar opposite to the NW- but I do see alot of differences. And THEY match each other very well, just as Hiker and I match each other. Funny how life's karma just manages to flow if you'd just let it flow, rather than trying to force things to fit some sort of mold or expecations.


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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