I'm so sorry that things didn't work out as you hoped.
You are a very smart woman who has her priorities straight and knows what she wants. Somewhere out there is a great guy who will appreciate all you have to offer and be ready. Its very open-minded and good of you to accept C's inability to commit. Obviously you know it has nothing to do with you personally and you can't fix another person's problems.
I have read all of your post and just want to send (((((Hugs)))) and lots of pints of your favorite ice cream your way. I know it was hard and painful to make that decision, but you really did the right thing. As women, we are conditioned to put everyones needs ahead of our own. It shows incredible growth and emotional security to make that type of decision, I know that first hand. I was with my xbf for 3 years and allthough we had different issues, we were not right for each other and I had to be the one to break it off all though I stilled(and still do) love him.
He still calls me and wants me back,(It's painful) but I know in my heart we can never be. It's not that they are bad people, they are just wrong for us.
At the end of the day we owe it to ourselves and our children to do what's best for us.
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R,
I applaud you for your courage and I think you have done the right thing.
I am sure it doesn't feel that way right now, but one day you will see why you had to let Carlos go.
Like you said, you need time to heal now. Maybe you can be friends one day, but for now just take care of yourself and remember the sadness will pass.
Sorry you had issues with mean posters. I am sure nobody here is dancing on your grave. Perhaps we have more empathy with you as single moms.
Clem xx
(((((((((((HUGE HUGS))))))))))
You did the right thing... I support you. You had a great time... no regrets. Now it's time to move on to new experiences. Keep posting.
How are you doing???? Eating ice cream, getting your nails done or going to a day spa... Take some extra time for you...
You are an amazing woman and an inspiration to us all.
Love,
LB
I'm so sorry that things didn't work out as you hoped.
You are a very smart woman who has her priorities straight and knows what she wants. Somewhere out there is a great guy who will appreciate all you have to offer and be ready. Its very open-minded and good of you to accept C's inability to commit. Obviously you know it has nothing to do with you personally and you can't fix another person's problems.
Keep your chin up!
You still have your head on straight!
I have read all of your post and just want to send (((((Hugs)))) and lots of pints of your favorite ice cream your way. I know it was hard and painful to make that decision, but you really did the right thing. As women, we are conditioned to put everyones needs ahead of our own. It shows incredible growth and emotional security to make that type of decision, I know that first hand. I was with my xbf for 3 years and allthough we had different issues, we were not right for each other and I had to be the one to break it off all though I stilled(and still do) love him.
He still calls me and wants me back,(It's painful) but I know in my heart we can never
be. It's not that they are bad people, they are just wrong for us.
At the end of the day we owe it to ourselves and our children to do what's best for us.
Be good to yourself right now.
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