Well, I did it... ...

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Well, I did it... ...
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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 12:12am

... I stayed true to myself.

I love S, but I wasn't happy. I need more communication than he was able to give- and being a distance relationship, you need MORE than a "regular" one.

I'd rather be single and open to a great match than in a relationship feeling happy only part of the time.

I'm feeling pretty wound up, but better :)

The boy

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 10:57am

Well Moony- I want sappy happy just like you have :P

Seriously though, he and I got along really well when we were together, but apart it was like I wasn't in a relationship and I couldn't wait for that feeling anymore.

The boy

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 11:06am
What now? Are you going to take a break or jump right back into the game again? I'm still out of the game since RF three weeks ago. I just get so tired of it all. LOL. Keeping myself free for my trip to Texas in December. That way I can flirt shamelessly.
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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 11:29am
Ooooh,

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Thu, 10-30-2008 - 11:39am
Oh wow!
 
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Registered: 10-24-2006
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 11:41am
I'm very sorry :( What a hard decision to make you are so strong and like you said, staying true to yourself that you weren't getting what you really wanted. (((HUGS)))

 

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 12:36pm

Oh wow, Ali.....


I did not know this was weighing on you. I'm very sorry because I know you cared a lot for S. And your ds liked him too. But I am so very proud of you for doing what is right for you both. You do need someone who is there and can communicate regularly with you. How did S take it?


((((((Hugs)))))))


Now the door is open for Mr right here.


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Edited 10/30/2008 12:40 pm ET by cl-pacific_sun
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Registered: 09-01-2006
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 12:46pm
Hey Alison - sorry to hear that your relationship with S had to come to this.
Rosecolouredspecs
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 1:15pm

Right now I'll need a break.


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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 1:16pm

"Now you can be CELIBATE like ME"


Hold on!


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Registered: 04-30-2008
Thu, 10-30-2008 - 2:41pm

Wow Ali,