Well, he wants us to be a couple - I guess he does not want any competition - LOL!! So we are exclusive.
BUT we had a long talk and I told him I want to wait a few months for intimacy and he agreed. I really want to take the time to get to know each other and develop a lot of fun things to do as a couple.
We have been talking every day on the phone. Yesterday he sent me the sweetest get well card that he wrote and put a fun picture of a runner. He says he feels so lucky to meet someone like me - that he thinks I am as beautiful now as I was in HS and he loves my accomplishments and that I am athletic and smart and a good mom.
WOW..he seems to be a great guy. I just watched this movie 13 going on 30 where she falls in love with her highschool friend..
Tell me you had a tiny winy crush on him or he had the same on you when you were in highschool.. So I can sit here and think about a movie plot :-)
I think holding off intimay for a while is a good thing. With mine we didnt say anything like that in words, but he told me that after few weeks he strated thinking that I was not attracted to him physically and wanted him just as an activity partner..lol.. Then one day we were driving around in the night and I started holding his hand and he had to change shifts and I wont leave his hands..lol..:-).. we were no talking much we were just silent and he had to change gear with left hand..lol- to be honest I didnt realise he needed that hand for anything as I always drive auto transmission.. Thank God we didnt crash in somewhere..
LOL- I was just going to say something just like that! Except I didn't, because I know Judy's been "sneaking out" to see him and trying to pass them all off as non-dates... hehehehe
Judy, I am surprised that you guys have already decided you're exclusive. There must be SOMETHING about him that has you wrapped up to be doing that, woman! I hope it keeps on going this wonderfully for you two!
Thanks, Shrimps. It is just that we have the history of being HS alumni and we have so much in common with our values and he is really into me. And I think he is worth it :-)
Your date was last night, and here it is, WAAAAY past noon there where you are. And even if your date ended going NUTS and you went South (LOL)... it should've been over by now! ;-)
Hope you both had a great time, and I'm waiting to hear all about it!!!!
~shrimpy, with a Hiker-date last night, and I DID go south on him... lol ;-) hehehe
I just posted the update - but realized I forgot to write that when I went to visit my girl friend A from HS, we spent the night like we used to with slumber parties when we were teenage girls and had so much fun. She has an apartment in the town where we grew up so that was a fun thing. This morning we got together with more of our girl friends.
Then when I got home, MA called and we chatted for hours again.
Alison, you are silly!!
Well, he wants us to be a couple - I guess he does not want any competition - LOL!! So we are exclusive.
BUT we had a long talk and I told him I want to wait a few months for intimacy and he agreed. I really want to take the time to get to know each other and develop a lot of fun things to do as a couple.
We have been talking every day on the phone. Yesterday he sent me the sweetest get well card that he wrote and put a fun picture of a runner. He says he feels so lucky to meet someone like me - that he thinks I am as beautiful now as I was in HS and he loves my accomplishments and that I am athletic and smart and a good mom.
Wow!
WOW..he seems to be a great guy. I just watched this movie 13 going on 30 where she falls in love with her highschool friend..
Tell me you had a tiny winy crush on him or he had the same on you when you were in highschool.. So I can sit here and think about a movie plot :-)
I think holding off intimay for a while is a good thing. With mine we didnt say anything like that in words, but he told me that after few weeks he strated thinking that I was not attracted to him physically and wanted him just as an activity partner..lol.. Then one day we were driving around in the night and I started holding his hand and he had to change shifts and I wont leave his hands..lol..:-).. we were no talking much we were just silent and he had to change gear with left hand..lol- to be honest I didnt realise he needed that hand for anything as I always drive auto transmission.. Thank God we didnt crash in somewhere..
Already an item and not even onto the first official date!
Wow- you're good :)
LOL- I was just going to say something just like that! Except I didn't, because I know Judy's been "sneaking out" to see him and trying to pass them all off as non-dates... hehehehe
Judy, I am surprised that you guys have already decided you're exclusive. There must be SOMETHING about him that has you wrapped up to be doing that, woman! I hope it keeps on going this wonderfully for you two!
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
~<
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Thanks, Shrimps. It is just that we have the history of being HS alumni and we have so much in common with our values and he is really into me. And I think he is worth it :-)
I have to post an update about our weekend.....
Well, it's about TIME for an update!!!
Your date was last night, and here it is, WAAAAY past noon there where you are. And even if your date ended going NUTS and you went South (LOL)... it should've been over by now! ;-)
Hope you both had a great time, and I'm waiting to hear all about it!!!!
~shrimpy, with a Hiker-date last night, and I DID go south on him... lol ;-) hehehe
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
~<
You are so funny!!
I just posted the update - but realized I forgot to write that when I went to visit my girl friend A from HS, we spent the night like we used to with slumber parties when we were teenage girls and had so much fun. She has an apartment in the town where we grew up so that was a fun thing. This morning we got together with more of our girl friends.
Then when I got home, MA called and we chatted for hours again.
So, sorry for the delay!!