Well ... the only "man" in my life, who

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Well ... the only "man" in my life, who
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:27pm

isnt even really IN my life, lol, who called me to say Happy Vday was Carlos!

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:42pm
What's new with Carlos?
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:47pm

not just Carlos--what is up with LB--could either of them be a potential for more than what they are now?


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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:50pm
I personally like LB.
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:56pm

Nothing really. No, no woman. We dont talk much about HIS love life, but he did call me at 4am NY eve (he isnt a drinker, he was sober lol, & knew i was at work & away) & he was sad sounding. He siad "I inadverdently broke up with someone tonite".

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:57pm

Nope. Even IF Carlos wanted to see me again romantically, i wouldnt do it. He's too set in his ways at 47 yrs old. & distance, careers ... none of it would work.


LB? Nope. Its just "not there". Yeah, i love the sex .... but nothing else really "matches" up for us. He's fun to hang out with, but not serious or long term.

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:58pm

Well, THATS true ... & he DOES have a VERY nice penis

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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 11:01pm
it's always the smart, hot ones that are commitment phobes.
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 11:05pm
We should all have an LB!!!
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Fri, 02-15-2008 - 9:21am

That was sweet of Carlos to call. And LB is more consistent with helping you, calling and going to dinner than most boyfriends. (He always sounds so nice - that is why I thought he would do something with Avery, too.)

So, between the 2 of them, you are more entertained than most of us in the non-dating category!! LOL!! BRAVO to you for keeping your place and not getting emotional with them when you know they are not right. You are much better than me with that.

I am glad that the psych is so smart about what needs to be done with your exh - he is trying - and his knowledge and wisdom will only help you more. You now only have 10 days til court - so try to hang in there and just be ready for that day. I know this must be really heavy and dreadful on your shoulders, but I feel if you could get sole custody and if he really has to get better to earn some time later on, that is the best course for Avery. Because his last batch of anger, and the stuff at the school, was really unstable and unsettling. I think you have handled everything well. And like you say, this all gets taken out of the money you owe him so that is a good way to look at it.

Thanks for the heads up about the violent movie - we will avoid that one.

Okay - CHEERS to everyone - no more VDay to have everyone upset. I was explaining to my friend yesterday - whose bf forgot to call - that VDay to us is like the Superbowl. We care about VDay but most men don't. And about the superbowl - most men love it but most women don't pay much attention to it. She thought that was a good analogy.

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Fri, 02-15-2008 - 9:30am
Sorry just have to interject something here. I hav e a gf too who has a bf who forgot to call. I comforted her but at the same time had to validate her feelings because my opinion is how do you forget about V Day? Are they living in a bubble or something - I mean it is EVERYWHERE and so over marketed. It seems like a purposeful oversight to me when guys forget it. Like testing almost. It made me mad for her.
And oh Rebecca thanks for the heads up on the movie. My X took my son to see I am Legend ( OMG) and this was around the time he was having trouble with fibbing. He then told me he saw Alvin and the Chipmunks (with great detail I might add ) only to wake me up screaming in the night to confess his lie. When I talked to the X about it I had to get a little edgy because it was such an irresponsible thing to do but also when we are already battling lying - how about not giving him something to lie about?? Geez! That was weeks ago and DS has really been a gem since but I dont think we are ready for another scary flick. He was in our bed for a few days in a row and at one point I had to fight not to laugh because I am Legend basically has everyone infected with rabies and he was cuddled up to me crying saying " I dont even feel safe with you anymore because you could be infected and so could Alastair...sob...and so could Monty..." If it wasnt so horrible it was also funny. Poor kid.
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