What did everyone do this weekend??

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What did everyone do this weekend??
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Mon, 01-31-2005 - 12:31pm

I would love to have a separate post from everyone, telling me what they did this weekend, etc, to start knocking my depressing posts to the bottom. LOL I can't stand seeing them anymore!

Stuff like: Did you go out?

Where?

Meet a guy, go out with a guy or what did you do with your hubby or boyfriend?

What about the kids, what did they do? With you or without?

Then the real nosey stuff:
Did you get along with your SO?
Did you talk about something special?
Did you have fun?
Or were you missing something this weekend?

I had a real relaxing time. Did therapeutic talk with West and First, if you read the thread. Watched movies, Alex had a friend spend the night so stayed home both Fri and Sat. Could of gone out, but just didn't have the money or the heart. Weather was crap, snow, ice, snow, ice. I hate the cold, so I rather stay in any day when it's snowing, with a movie and a blanket. So I did. Slept in. My hair has serious build up and is a mess so did that. Wrote some penpals. Kind of got a little bored. Not used to NO ACTION, but suddenly I just feel so much more relaxed. I did the same thing last weekend. I am just not in the mood for the first time in years. Even my mom is commenting, about the alone time I have.
Oh yeah, I did have a date for Fri, but it was cancelled because of the snow storm. Thank goodness. Not anthing worth mentioning, just a guy I know.

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Mon, 01-31-2005 - 3:12pm
BEING REALLY OBNOXIOUS NOSY NOW!! Any talk about Marriage yet? You've been dating him 3yrs now, right? Is this the guy? Have you thought about that?
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Mon, 01-31-2005 - 3:19pm

Haha. You are like a mind reader missy.
You know, I was thinking the other day, I must have the record on here for dating someone without marrying them?? It's been 3 1/2 years now yes.

We do talk about it casually. And if his finances were different or if I didn't want a real engagement ring someday, he'd have asked by now. He wanted to marry me back when the ex was giving us such hell over the kids, just to be more "legal" for the courts. But I didn't want to get married that way.

Honestly, I'm content with our relationship now. The only real ouchy is he wants kids, I don't. He loves my kids as his own but he'd really like a baby. I don't want to start all over at this point. And I did set a time limit for myself that if I didn't have another baby by 33, that would be it. I'm 32. I also said, I'd have to be married first this time around. So I don't see myself getting married in the next year. I'm positive, some day, we'll get married but I am just not in a hurry.

You're not obnoxious, don't worry. :)

 

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Registered: 07-29-2003
Mon, 01-31-2005 - 3:26pm

Stuff like: Did you go out? Where? Meet a guy, go out with a guy or what did you do with your hubby or boyfriend? What about the kids, what did they do? With you or without?


We actually went away this weekend up North with our children.

Lori

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