What do you think.. GQ OLD opening..

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-05-2008
What do you think.. GQ OLD opening..
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Tue, 06-03-2008 - 1:41pm




Hi girls.. ok.. last night I had a great converstation with GQ, and well he told me what his dreams were and what he would like to do.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 5:07pm

To be honest, this sounds like a chemistry experiment gone very bad. We can have a wild attraction for someone - and sometimes it is a reflection of something that we would like to change about ourselves or our past - it is usually not a good thing or a stable thing although in the beginning it is a fun thing - but we do not always have to choose to have a relationship with whom we have a wild attraction. The head has to rule the heart IMO.

So, I do have a few thoughts of "what I would do" in your shoes - and you can take them or leave them - you always have to be the one to do what you think is best for you.

I would forget him.

Because for one thing he is posting on an OLD site. And for another - he sounds like someone who is not stable or grounded or in reality because he doesn't want a house and he is 28 and wants to drive around in an RV. And his dreamy marriage statement is sort of out there.

You had fun while it lasted and you may have a model of what you want - so if the conversation goes south tonight don't feel bad.

I wish I could be wrong because I know you like him. Keep us posted.

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 5:14pm

but we do not always have to choose to have a relationship with whom we have a wild attraction. The head has to rule the heart IMO.


Words of wisdom that I can use, too- I REALLY wish to learn and follow this myself!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 5:17pm
I have learned that lesson the hard way. Sometimes, the right thing to do is the hardest thing to do!
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 06-03-2008 - 6:02pm

Ok, I have a slightly different take on this and it could be entirely because I don't know the whole history.

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 7:37am

I don't know.........

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 06-04-2008 - 1:01pm

If he were to post.

~Pacific~

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