what do you think....hugs or kisses?

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what do you think....hugs or kisses?
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Mon, 02-07-2005 - 9:18am

this was interesting, and with all the hugging at the iglesia it caught my eye.


What say you about it being true for men you know?


I'm thinking it's pretty accurate...


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Half Huggers
"Guys who give a one-armed embrace tend to be guarded with their emotions," says Audrey Nelson, Ph.D., author of You Don't Say: Navigating Nonverbal Communication Between the Sexes, "but in the sack, they're able to unleash all that pent-up energy and let loose.


(but from my experience it may not have much to do with pleasing you...)


Bear Huggers
The ultimate man's man, they love taking care of a woman. "They're into playing the traditional male role and taking charge, including in the bedroom," says Nelson. But don't be fooled by his assertiveness: He's actually a big softie.


(as a matter of fact, the ones I know want to protect the world)


Kissers
A kiss is not just a kiss to these cuties. "A short peck hello shows he really cares about you," Nelson points out, "but a full-blown smooch that lasts more than 10 seconds shows he's had sex with you on his brain all day." The sack sessions are bound to be intense


Hug-and-Kissers
It'll be a wild ride with this up-for-anything boy! "Men who do hug-and-kiss combos crave variety and excitement," Nelson says. Meaning: He's full of surprises, both in and out of bed, and he needs a woman who can keep up.


(so much hugging going on at the iglesia, not sure how to tell between the last two....maybe they're all huggers AND kissers??? LOL)

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Mon, 02-07-2005 - 10:15am

Ha, funny
I can only go by my SO. He's definitely a full on bear hugger, but also sometimes a hugger and kisser. I mean, if he never did both, that would be disappointing right?

He's definitely all about taking charge, in the bedroom. But he's definitely less aggressive in life. So I guess I 50% agree with that.

And I totally agree with what it says about the hug and kisser. Lucky for me! ;)

Tara

Now, what about the platonic hug?

 

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Registered: 01-05-2005
Mon, 02-07-2005 - 11:06am

Hmmm, is that the "shoulders touching only" kind of hug?


I don't have any trouble telling the difference at the iglesia...most are loving/but platonic.