I was just about to write you an email when I saw your post. I have been wondering how you are. I have been "absent" as well....had the flu.
Hugs to you. I soooo no what you mean about the funk. I have been in that same funk boat for days or weeks, and much of the same feelings!
Business can really take a toll on you. You've been so busy, so many family things, and not much alone time. It can really wear on you. I know! I was feeling all pent up and drained as well recently, needing BES time alone. Thankfully we got that time the past two evenings. I so needed it. I was happy to hear that SEV told his dd21 that Wednesday night was not good. I bet you were so relieved. If he had said yes I know that would have been your boiling point. It would have been mine.
As for the "little things". You know what.. I have been mulling over that same thing lately. It really made me so sad for days. I was missing how he would practically trip over himself to get the door for me, how he used to practically
LOL!! That has me cracking up! I hope you do go out and do something great together. Even one night! I bet he is thinking about what to do. Maybe he will surprise you ;o)
BE and I will celebrate our anniversary Saturday Nov 1 because Nov 4 is a Tuesday AND election day so that day would not be the best to go out. There could be rioting in the streets lol!
Honestly I am really trying hard this year to not get any big expectations. I was really let down hard last year and I don't need the heartache again. I had "expectations" of a romantic day/night and that I would be presented with a nice little sentimental gift. Well that all went to heck last year and I was so disappointed. So, this year I am remembering all the nice things he does for me throughout the year and not getting my hopes up for the actual two year anniversary date as being anything earth shattering romantic. I'd rather have low expectations or no expectations as to not get disappointed.
Funny.. he did mention going camping. How romantic lol! I was just pleased that he even suggested getting way just the two of us so I did nothing but show enthusiasm. If I even hinted that I thought his idea is bad he will retreat into not making suggestions. So we might go camping...in the cold mountains...in a tent....lol! We will see!
I did get him one gift so far. Its this HUGE Rolling Stones Rock encyclopedia. He is a nut for that kind of stuff and his current one is way outdated. I need something else too, something more personal. I'm thinking about that..
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Moon!!!!
I was just about to write you an email when I saw your post. I have been wondering how you are. I have been "absent" as well....had the flu.
Hugs to you. I soooo no what you mean about the funk. I have been in that same funk boat for days or weeks, and much of the same feelings!
Business can really take a toll on you. You've been so busy, so many family things, and not much alone time. It can really wear on you. I know! I was feeling all pent up and drained as well recently, needing BES time alone. Thankfully we got that time the past two evenings. I so needed it. I was happy to hear that SEV told his dd21 that Wednesday night was not good. I bet you were so relieved. If he had said yes I know that would have been your boiling point. It would have been mine.
As for the "little things". You know what.. I have been mulling over that same thing lately. It really made me so sad for days. I was missing how he would practically trip over himself to get the door for me, how he used to practically
Good Lord, Sister, we DO live parallel lives LOL!!!
I'm out of the funk, and feeling like the cloud has been lifted.
You are not alone..that is
Fortunately, he's all about making the time at least 1x week.
I've kinda wondered where you've been!!
'It was a dark and stormy night'
LOL!! That has me cracking up! I hope you do go out and do something great together. Even one night! I bet he is thinking about what to do. Maybe he will surprise you ;o)
BE and I will celebrate our anniversary Saturday Nov 1 because Nov 4 is a Tuesday AND election day so that day would not be the best to go out. There could be rioting in the streets lol!
Honestly I am really trying hard this year to not get any big expectations. I was really let down hard last year and I don't need the heartache again. I had "expectations" of a romantic day/night and that I would be presented with a nice little sentimental gift. Well that all went to heck last year and I was so disappointed. So, this year I am remembering all the nice things he does for me throughout the year and not getting my hopes up for the actual two year anniversary date as being anything earth shattering romantic. I'd rather have low expectations or no expectations as to not get disappointed.
Funny.. he did mention going camping. How romantic lol! I was just pleased that he even suggested getting way just the two of us so I did nothing but show enthusiasm. If I even hinted that I thought his idea is bad he will retreat into not making suggestions. So we might go camping...in the cold mountains...in a tent....lol! We will see!
I did get him one gift so far. Its this HUGE Rolling Stones Rock encyclopedia. He is a nut for that kind of stuff and his current one is way outdated. I need something else too, something more personal. I'm thinking about that..
We DO get the beginning and end of each day, and I'm not minimizing that at all.
Girls, I’ve been feeling like that this week too.
*passing around the spray can of Funk-B-Gone*
Seems we all need it lately!! This too shall pass as we all know. I hope you feel better soon too, Cat.
Cat, I'm sorry to hear you've been in the FUNK as well, but appreciate you sharing your recent feelings.
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