My ex and I lived parallel lives for years. He worked nights and I worked days. I got so used to being alone that when we finally separated, life didn't seem that different. So now when I contemplate the idea of adding someone to my life in the form of a boyfriend, I can't decide if it will feel normal or weird to have someone around more often. I think I can deal with someone who doesn't want a lot of my time. The emotional connection would be nice, but I don't know if I could deal with a body on the couch all the time, if you know what I mean.
The thought of living with someone is very scary. Even though you have been married, your "living together" experience is not the same as it is for most people. Good thing you are thinking about that ahead of time!
Moon, you sound worn out. Jeez, I can relate between coaching soccer and running and watching field hockey for months I am worn out too. But its all ending next week and I am looking forward to some me time, some EMT and me time and some family time. So my advice is end some of the things that are wearing you out and just do somethings for you and SEV. But you had that answer all along.
Making couple time sometimes goes by the wayside but its so important. Not having any was one of the many things that ruined my marriage.
Company is fun and everyone loves having it but it wears a host out. I cant handle more than a few days of my family, which is why I live on the other side of the country from them.
Take it easy and let us know how youre doing and what fun things you are doing to relax and destress.
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Funkitude is so gross. Not the kine of aura to have. I'm with Pac...where's the Funk-Be-Gone spray.
I think it's the weather. Seems like everyone around me (including myself) is in a funk.
Love you guys!
Found the cool radio station builder on-line from Pac so I'm groovin' to the tunes.
Whoo hoo!! Good jams, good friends, good food! Now that's how to shoo away the funk! Have FUN!
My ex and I lived parallel lives for years. He worked nights and I worked days. I got so used to being alone that when we finally separated, life didn't seem that different. So now when I contemplate the idea of adding someone to my life in the form of a boyfriend, I can't decide if it will feel normal or weird to have someone around more often. I think I can deal with someone who doesn't want a lot of my time. The emotional connection would be nice, but I don't know if I could deal with a body on the couch all the time, if you know what I mean.
The thought of living with someone is very scary. Even though you have been married, your "living together" experience is not the same as it is for most people. Good thing you are thinking about that ahead of time!
Moon, you sound worn out. Jeez, I can relate between coaching soccer and running and watching field hockey for months I am worn out too. But its all ending next week and I am looking forward to some me time, some EMT and me time and some family time. So my advice is end some of the things that are wearing you out and just do somethings for you and SEV. But you had that answer all along.
Making couple time sometimes goes by the wayside but its so important. Not having any was one of the many things that ruined my marriage.
Company is fun and everyone loves having it but it wears a host out. I cant handle more than a few days of my family, which is why I live on the other side of the country from them.
Take it easy and let us know how youre doing and what fun things you are doing to relax and destress.
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