What happened to your First True Love?

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What happened to your First True Love?
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Wed, 06-11-2008 - 12:11pm

We're having a lot of fun with PacSun's thread of Firsts.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 3:05pm
I find that BE has similarities ro my first love, "R", too. Both are very social, extraverted types. Both are great communicators. On the down side, both are people pleasers to the point of neglecting "us" sometimes..but BE at least has been reconnizing this recently. I see
~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 3:08pm
I read your "first time" story on the other thread!
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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 3:26pm

ooooh I'm sorry your'e first time was not as memorable...or maybe rather one you would like to not remember!


Yes, the cabin in Tahoe. I remember everything. His birthday, and we had our own room. It was a very secluded, woodsy cabin. We had been "thinking about it" for months...had been dating for over a year. So it was kind of planned :o)


The music was playing...Journey, lol. When it happened..."it" did not take very long....I mean like one minute and it was over. (it was also his first time). He was kind of freaked out and I think he even cried a little? Sooo different than his usual self. We did not use protection so I was FREAKING out for weeks afterwards hoping I did not get pregnant!! (so was he!)


~Pacific~
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Registered: 04-14-2008
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 3:59pm
I have no idea where V ended up. I think I saw her once at a dance club several years later. I could probably find out where she is if I wanted or needed to, but I see no reason to do so.
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 5:29pm

Oh come on!

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 5:40pm
Last I heard he got married but lost his wife to cancer about 5 years ago. I tried a google search on his name once out of curiosity
~Pacific~
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 5:43pm
LOL too funny.
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 5:59pm

My first true love...We met when we were 15.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:22pm

Several years later I got back in touch with him and visited him.



  • he told me to move on
  • Said he tried to kill himself when I moved.

I found him again about eight years ago.

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Registered: 09-21-2006
Wed, 06-11-2008 - 6:39pm

Moon,
The only reason I know anything about my childhood sweeties is through Classmates.com. I'm not hunting them down, I didn't even let them know I had looked at their profiles on Classmates. I am pleased to know they both are doing fine. KC ,I feared, had died of his drug problems years ago.

QB