What in the world am I doing girls?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
What in the world am I doing girls?
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Thu, 09-18-2008 - 2:41pm

Ok, first off, so sorry for being MIA the last few days but with rates dropping like they have been I have been swamped, plus I started a second part time job and you throw in kids and well..............you know, lol.

 

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iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 4:44pm

Hey - I know I'm jumping in here, but this guy is SCREAMING red flags to me.

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 5:55pm
Yes, I am working on it. I can't figure out why I am being such a wuss about this.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:07pm
You are not being a wuss.
 
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:20pm

Thank you northen buddy!!

 
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-06-2008
Fri, 09-19-2008 - 10:49pm

Thank you so much for your kind words!

I think it's that he is the first person I have really been involved with since I got divorced and I am using the same (bad) coping skills I learned while my marriage was falling apart. Heck, I even had a whole speech scripted out at work, used the very end of my prep time to call, since I knew I had a time limit, and I still couldn't say, "I need more than you can give." You are so right, the emotions get involved and I want to say one thing and another comes out. I hang up the phone and think to myself, "Come on, I can't believe you didn't do it!"

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