What would your reaction be

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Registered: 09-29-2007
What would your reaction be
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Tue, 11-13-2007 - 1:14am

After we had it out, I left it up to her. We have been still dating, but I'm moving cautiously.

I had off from work today so I met her for lunch and we spent a couple of hours together. It was great.

Before she went to bed tonight she called to say good night. She told me about how much fun it was to watch her DD in gymnastics, and how proud of her she is. I reminded her to check on her son to make sure he did his homework (she called to him while we were on the phone and he answered he didn't do it, so she made him) and asked how the dog was. After some small chit chat she told me that "plumber boy" aka ex-bf, had called again to get a massage from her. She tells me that she told him no, that she was fully booked at her home office but he was free to see if there were appointments available at the day spa she works at.

I am not sure what to do with this. She told me he called and I'll assume she did tell him no at home. So, is this a breakthrough in our relationship and is she trying to be very open?

Or is it her telling me that she isn't yet going to shut the door. She is still taking the call and talking to him, telling me she is just trying to be nice.

It bothers the hell out of me that he might book at the day spa and get her to put her hands on his naked body. I'm sure there wouldn't be any hanky panky at the spa, but I'm afraid it might open the door wider. I know that if I were to tell her that it bothers me too much to even think about her hands on him and that I wish she wouldn't even think about it at all and tell him no, not ever, that she will view me as insecure and controlling. I'm thinking that I might tell her that an old GF is coming over for me to rub her down. Wonder what she will think about that.

Since you all know the story, what would your reaction be if you were in my shoes?

Zen

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Registered: 09-29-2007
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 10:33pm

Well, there ain't a down the shore joke or saying I haven't heard...go ahead, give it a try!

I used to haunt places in Seaside...maybe I've already hit on you some time in the past...

So, when is it you will be visiting me?

Zen

P.S. - I need to know so that Alison doesn't find out LOL!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 12-04-2007 - 11:35pm

Cheatin on me already!????!!!?



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Registered: 03-15-2004
Wed, 12-05-2007 - 9:27am

I just got thru this thread. & by the time you guys have me cracking up, I forget all i was going to say to Zen! lol


...almost

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Registered: 09-29-2007
Thu, 12-06-2007 - 11:43am

Me, Cheat?


Well Alison, it didn't mean anything. I was thinking of you the whole time. I'll never do it again, I swear...LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!


So, Ali, when are YOU coming down?


Zen

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