What's Wrong With Me?
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What's Wrong With Me?
| Fri, 10-07-2005 - 6:30pm |
I have read this site off and on for a while and never felt the need to ask for advice but I finally need some. I am a single mom of two wonderful children who hasn't had much luck in the love department. Three and a half years ago I gave up and got sick of the losers and went solo for a while. Just recently I began dating again and well the same old losers were still out there they just had different names and backgrounds. That was until I met the guy I currently date. He is everything a girl like me could ask for; sweet, smart, funny, all of the usual things. He is very attentive and considerate, he tells me that I'm beautiful and he is genuinely interested in what I have to say and my feelings. He gives me gifts, calls me everyday, text messages little notes, takes me wherever I want to go. I wasn't too attracted to him physically, not because hes a troll. quite the contrary, just not my type. I like him fine when he's around most of the time but other times I'm just not into him at all. I finally let go of what I felt like was my own petty attitude and let him meet my kids and my mother. They all adore him, my kids ask everyday if hes coming over and my mother who usually doesn't approve of any guy I date smiles at me like I've hit the jackpot. He offers to fix things around my house for me and recently offered to drive me 14 hours to see my best friend since I couldn't fly to see her. He knows that I have made a promise not to have sex until I'm with the man I'm going to spend the rest of my life with and he hasn't made a improper move yet. He respects my wishes and tells me that I'm smart for doing it. So I guess my question is this.....After all of the losers and weirdos, why can I not seem to fall for the guy who seems perfect? Sometimes I like him and I really feel like I'm falling for him but other times I just don't feel anything at all. Please help me out here, any advice would help. Thanks!!

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I was just skipping around reading things and I found yours sooooooo familiar....I do the same thing and I have FINALLY figured out why I don't want the ones that want me....the are not any kind of a CHALLENGE! They're too easy!! Just my thoughts, and believe me my friends are telling me to GET OVER liking a challenge! Probably why I'm still single after 10 years of being divorced! Dated every kind of guy imaginable though....but haven't found Mr. Perfect for me yet!
Have a great day!
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