What's your opinion on HOT?
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| Wed, 09-26-2007 - 5:42pm |
Ok...so I guess I'm just day dreaming about my guy and men in general. Of couse there's the standard personality things that in my opinion makes a guy hot (confidance, intelligence, humor..etc) but lets get a bit shallow for a second and give the dish on what we prefer in looks! It's funny how different we all are in tastes! (and for you guys, describe your dream girl)
For me, I have always like a guy who is taller than me, which is pretty easy because I am short.
I love a great smile....nice teeth.
I am a sucker for shoulders. There's nothing like a man with a nice, strong pair and a muscular back!
I am not overly pick about his fitness but super overweight would turn me off.
My wierd confession: I love the lines men get on the outside of the eyes, usually starts around age 40 or so. To me it looks lexy, experienced, the guy has lived and known life.
-- I am smitten with my guy Blue Eyes. His eyes are incredible and he's got great shoulders :o) Lucky me!!
~Pacific~

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I can see how you would feel that way after reading this particular thread. But just as Rebecca said, the topic is sort of a day-dream. You know, like when guys get together in a group and they talk about the blonde with great breasts and legs up to here. I can guarantee you that I do NOT fit that category..LOL. In reality, what really attracts us (guys and girls alike) of course is the winning personality and that special something from within. In fact, the majority of men I have had the strongest feelings for in the past have been what society would call "average" in looks..but it was who they were that I loved.
So, I hope that you can see this thread as just a written expression of a daydream, escaping reality! Sometimes it's fun to just think about the purely primitive, superficial...it's a nice break form the depth of emotions that goes into daily life :o)
Now come on...what's your fantasy type, just for a moment pretending that she would automatically be wonderful in personality, what would she look like?
~Pacific~
Oh, I know it's all in good fun.
You know, psychosemantic... the guys I see that make me go "wow- he is HOT!!!" are the same guys that I won't touch with a 10-foot pole because so many of them end up being royal jerks!!!! Best to be a nice-looking normal nice guy than a hot-looking jerk!
I'm no super-model celebrity type either... but what counts is that I find that ONE man who will think that I'm just as hot for real, as they look to be on the screen! Who CARES if there aren't men knocking down my door!!! I kinda like my door lonely the way it is! lol
You'll find your very own "psychosemantic groupie" one day. ;-)
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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Exactly! the guys I see that make me go "wow- he is HOT!!!" are the same guys that I won't touch with a 10-foot pole because so many of them end up being royal jerks!!!!
I have never met a gorgeous man
It's so funny that you mention Jack Black. I just saw "The Holiday" with Jack Black this weekend and he was so cute in that movie...and Kate )what's her last name..played in Titanic) falls in love with him...great flick! I was thinking to myself that Jack Black was really great in his role, but it's too bad he reminds me of my ex! It's true. I married my ex for his humor and lightheartedness, but it just didn't work in the long run.
But I know tons of girls who would love to be with a Jack Black...I know that a Ms Jack Black is out there waiting!
~Pacific~
Long story but I started to post about it under "his night out..."
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