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When???
| Tue, 04-29-2008 - 1:55pm |
Hello Ladies,
First I want to thank you all for your advice yesterday.
I have signed up for some internet dating sites. POF, and match.com.
I am e-mailing with 2 people..and getting my toes wet a little.
At what point did you actually "meet" someone you where e-mailing with, in person. I don't know the protocol yet. Some guy gave me his phone number already, after only 2 days, and i told him i would have to talk to him on here a bit before I actually would call him. Am i being too cautious?? or maybe just chicken sh*t?? lol
To refresh, i am 38, newly divorced with 2 boys. Thanks!!!

~Karen˙·٠•●♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ
I do agree with Tiny that YOU need to be comfortable BUT you also need to be careful.
April
When I do OLD, I look to meet ASAP because that is the only way to know someone.
Beware! There are guys that will email you forever with no intention of ever meeting up in
person, or the one's I used to get, that email you a few times and then just dissappear alltogether!
If after a few emails, he makes no effort to meet up with you, that's a big red flag, that he's just there to chit chat and waste your time.
You have to have thick, elephant like skin to do OLD, and the patience of a saint for all that comes
with it, so keep a super, open mind and take it with a grain of salt.
Best of luck to you.
When I was doing the OLD thing, I always ran the guys names through a website here in WI for Circuit Court Access.
Thanks again for all the advice. I guess i should just take a deep breath and jump in. After not talking/being with another man for 20 years...this is very scary.
I am 38 feeling like 16...
I agree with Mark- you should plan to meet as soon as possible in person.