When a FWB wants more than you....

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Registered: 03-11-2004
When a FWB wants more than you....
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Tue, 08-26-2008 - 11:05am

Not sure if this is the case but CS is starting to come off a little stronger than i had hoped. We have really had a hard time meeting up again for a friendly ummmm meet-up and its been fine by me. He even went away on a guys retreat extended golfing weekend and called and text every day while gone. We've seen each other on the beach briefly (DD and i were playing in the water and he stopped for a chat and left...just how i like it) Like I said our schedules have really been conflicted and make tentative plans and then they fall through...no biggie really. But he calls every day...EVERY DAY...texts every day...EVERY DAY....while the attention is nice its more than i thought a FWB was. Last night he was going to come over after his softball game and i sent him a text that i was feeling under the weather call me tomorrow....he called to see if i needed anything, called me baby, and the feeling of being smothered came over me. I dont know about you all but "baby" or "babe" or "sweetie" for that matter are pet names i dont really start to get into until im really settled into a loving relationship. While hes a nice guy I can tolerate him for ohhhh about 45 mins alone then im ready to say "see ya next time sweet cheeks, got things to do". I guess im just looking for sparks and while he does have a sweet set of cheeks on him the rest just isnt there. Eeekk any thoughts ladies (and gents)?


M...I think im just going to pine away for DD's music man...LOL

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Wed, 08-27-2008 - 7:32am

Yeah send him my way....kidding. You need to be honest with him and let him know how you feel so he doesnt get in over his head and get hurt.

Laurie

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