when/how to say ILY

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when/how to say ILY
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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:06pm

ok - question for ya'll :-)


I am struggling desperately - Its on my mind alot so I know it's something I am going to have to take care of.

JH

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:13pm

I've tried drinking some wine to get my courage up - but I just end up jumping him...stupid wonderful wine :-)


You CRACK ME UP!

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:21pm
OMG that is the sweetest thing!! I hope you jumped him :-)

JH


This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the scrap heap; the being a force of Nature instead of a feverish selfish little clod of ailments and grievances complaining that the world will not devote itself to making you happy.


JH

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:39pm

I know what you mean! I whispered it to my ex and never could say it above a whisper, it was weird. Felt like a secret.

With S I felt it LONG before we started dating- because I had fallen in love with him just as a friend, he meant so much for me, so it wasn't a shock to him when I said I loved him.

Of course, when he said it back it was when we were goofing around and I was being sooo silly and he says, "oh great, I'm in love with a ten year old!" LOL!

How has SS reacted to you when you've said the list you mentioned? Was he responsive or just let it slide?

If you're feeling it, just share it- however it comes out, let the emotion take you there. If he doesn't say it back, it's not the end of the world- because people move at different paces.

The boy

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:40pm

" He had written 'I knew 20 minutes into our first date that I loved you'."

Oh- you just HAD to share ANOTHER sappy love moment, didn't you???

GEESH!!!

:P

SEV is just so cute!

The boy

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:42pm

He had written 'I knew 20 minutes into our first date that I loved you'.


OMG Moon, I don't know HOW but you keep on simply flooring me with the things you have with SEV. I got chills again.. I'm all teary eyed!! I'm such a romantic sap. He is WONDERFUL and SMART to have seen all these things in you :o)


That says so much that SEV knew that from your first date. NO WONDER you two are so in love!!!


~Pacific~
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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:43pm
When I said "I don't hate you" which ive said several times - he just rolls his eyes at me.

JH

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:43pm

SEV is just so cute!


You got that right, Sista!


He would probably KILL me if he knew I was sharing all his 'tender' moments!

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:44pm

I hope you jumped him :-)


Well, DUH!!!!!! ;-)

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:46pm

Yeah no doubt- if we ever meet the guy, we'd all be giggling ;)

The boy

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Wed, 08-13-2008 - 5:47pm

Thanks, Pac.

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