Where did all these women come from?

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-10-2001
Where did all these women come from?
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Tue, 03-29-2005 - 3:24pm

Cripe!

J e-mailed me, told me she wanted to call me tonight.

Then two other women from e-harmony are e-mailing me directly.

Then my first high school sweetheart e-mails me last night...

Good Lord! What do I do now?

God has a nasty sense of humor at times.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-30-2003
Wed, 03-30-2005 - 12:10pm

Oh please! Forget J already! She used both lines on you. I'm going out of town this weekend. She used the tactic, say you're going to call and then don't. I suspect you shot her a little email asking how her weekend was. Then, she did the phone call thing to give you the line that someone she has feelings for is interested in her.

Lines, games, and lines.

Try to get to know the other eHarmony women. Get out and look for other women in your town as well.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-05-2005
Wed, 03-30-2005 - 1:11pm

Relax is great advice here, Brian.


I read an article once and people here said their experiences made it pretty on target. It said you have to date 21 people to get one good prospect. And that's still only a prospect. Try to take it in stride and ASSUME that each woman is NOT the one. Guard your emotions, don't get too involved.


The ride has only started. :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-25-2004
Wed, 03-30-2005 - 1:14pm
That is great advice - 21 dates to get one prospect - and so so true.

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