Where do you rate on the 10 traits?
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Where do you rate on the 10 traits?
| Thu, 09-25-2008 - 4:51pm |
I just read the "10 traits that make you a great girlfriend" article. I'll post the link below.
I thought we could rate ourselves, give yourself a 1-10 on how you think you rate on each trait. When I did this it helped me to figure out where I can use some improvement.

You go sister!!!
SEV is LUCKY!!!!!
You are Independant
You are Intelligent - 8
You are Sexual - 10
Your Beauty-- You don't have to be Heidi Klum but you take care of your appearance. - 8 (shoot ,... what did everyone else put? lol
I was kidding, Sister!!!
You are Independent.....yep, even to a fault!
You are Intelligent....I have common sense. Does that count?
You are Sexual....yeah I like it a lot. EMT was thrilled about that.
Your Beauty-- I identify with Jamie Lee Curtis more. lol. I dont know about beauty but for a 46 year old mom of 3 I am in great shape, thats counts for something doesnt it?
You respect him......Big time
You let him be a man.....although I tease him about letting his feminine side out more often.
You don't nag.....tried that in my marriage. It doesnt work. So I gave it up.
You get along with his friends and family......so far so good there
You love him for who he is, not who you want him to be......yeah but with one tiny exception that I am working on trying to forget. Both he and I would like to see him get in better shape. I know. I am trying to forget it.
You make him want to be a better man......I think he is who he is with or without me. Make sense?
Good topic!
Laurie
Moon, you are too funny.
You are Independant
You are Intelligent: 9, but secretly I want to be 10
You are Sexual: when I was married...2, husband was HORRIBLE, made me feel AWFUL.
This was a good ego boost, Pac! Good thinking and great way to get us to step outside ourselves and take a look at how we really are!
Actually, I am a 10 on everything except my beauty. He says I'm fine, but I really feel like I could try harder to stay in shape. I'm not horrible, but I am slightly over weight and I could definitely use some toning.
You are Independant: I work, take care of my kids, take care of myself financially, and have interests outside him- 10
You are Intelligent: According to BF one of the first things that attracted him about me- 9
You are Sexual: Um yeah and all because of him because he taught me how to enjoy sex- 10
Your Beauty-- You don't have to be Heidi Klum but you take care of your appearance: He tells me I am beautiful and I know I put in an effort for him but I can only honestly give myself and 8 and that's pushing it.
You respect him: Absolutely- 10
You let him be a man (see the article for what that means) Again absolutely- 10
You don't nag: Not a nagger in any way- 10
You get along with his friends and family: Well he has no family but the friends I have met like me- 8
You love him for who he is, not who you want him to be: 10- I would not want to change him in any way.
You make him want to be a better man: He's a pretty darn good man.