Why can't I be Stonger??? I feel weak.
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Why can't I be Stonger??? I feel weak.
| Tue, 02-19-2008 - 7:18pm |
Right now I wish my relationship was better with Blue Eyes.
| Tue, 02-19-2008 - 7:18pm |
Right now I wish my relationship was better with Blue Eyes.
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Good luck and take care Pacific.
How I communicate with CNDG: "The story I make up in my head is .... and I want to check that out with you."
The unsaid is torture and I swear I'd rather hear really horrible news like he's found someone else (then I could move on) than to hear nothing yet FEEL and sense there is something. That's like being in a haunted house and knowing it's in there but not being able to see or identify it- is the most scary and unsettling part.
Wow Mark I have actually said those words verbatim in relationships past. I usually also follow that up with " oh and by the way if that sounds bad guess what - that thought hooked up with and married this other bad thought in a weak moment and the two of them had babies while I was sleeping. Please start filling me in!"
I just dont think people can afford to consistently assume we know everything is fine and they are just have a quiet time that has nothing to do with us. Unless they say so, that is!!
" oh and by the way if that sounds bad guess what - that thought hooked up with and married this other bad thought in a weak moment and the two of them had babies while I was sleeping. Please start filling me in!"
-LOL! When you have asked these questions, do you worry about coming off as insecure or untrusting? I mean, sometimes if and when I ask for reassurance
I don't like to work at or worry too much on how I appear to the other person.
Don't feel insecure for being in the dark. Everyone feels insecure in the dark. You cant see in there and he is the only one with a flashlight so to speak!!
HUGS...
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