Why do grown ups behave so poorly
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| Sun, 08-24-2008 - 7:43pm |
I say grown ups here because I know women do this, too.
After my talk (re: meeting kids w/o commitment) with Mr. Summer, we left it "friendly", or so I thought (that was Tuesday). Wednesday, he ignored my text (unusual) I called him later in the evening and he basically gave me the "can't talk now, really busy", which could have been true because he had a big work thing coming up the next day. He asked me to call him Thursday, but I reminded him that he was busy, so he suggested I call the next day. No call from him Friday, texted around 7:30 (which is what I didn't want to do, but did it anyway, duh), no response. Nothing Saturday. Sunday noon, I sent an quick e-mail a la, WTF is going on here (but in only the nicest way). As of now, nothing.
This is after two months of nearly daily contact. What I don't get is why people behave this way. This is a man who is practically attached to his phone, has tons of computers at home, and most important, always told me how important it was for him to do the right thing by other people!!!!!
Yeah, part of me wants to see him because he HAD BEEN so nice to me...and I was lapping it up, but the other part is so angry for being treated this way that I don't really think I could trust him again, or really want a person who treats me like this in my life.
I guess I am just venting...but really, an e-mail is so non-confrontational, and you can even block an e-mail from coming in, so why can't people have to courtesy to let others know what is going on?

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The whole relationship thing with men is so confusing. I am going to hold out for a man who knows what he wants and can communicate it. If he cant communicate it or if he is not sure what he wants or plays games then I am out of there.
Laurie
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