Why do I always

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Why do I always
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 12:59pm

start to doubt things?

April

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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:13pm

Relax, breath. ;-) I think your guy just wants to know your happy.


As far as school goes, 20 years in higher education tells me that enrollment always goes up when the economy gets bad. It will probably be a record year for admissions in most parts of the country. Schools will be bursting at the seems to get as many people in as possible. They may offer you an admission for other than fall semester. It may also mean that otherwise eligible students don't get in this year due to lack of space. All you can do is take what comes.

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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:16pm

Thank you--I knew I was freaking out for no reason and just needed a swift kick!

April

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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:27pm

Hey April!


I understand about the "little uncertainly voice" that creeps in. I've dealth with and battled that voice many times! I would do just as you have altrady told yourself- relax and one day at a time! My guess is that LawStudent was just curious again about your day, regardless of the texts. I might have texted something back like "Was that not you I was talking to yesterday, lol??" Just to throw it out there- that's just me.


He could be brain fried with all his traveling and school. I would not worry. Sometimes BE will ask me a question and I'll answer and then he will ask me again in an hour. lol!


Yeah- one day at a time! Enjoy the moments and try not to read the bad into this. He sounds good!


~Pacific~
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:45pm

Enjoy the moments and try not to read the bad into this. He sounds good!


I know, thank you for that confirmation.

April

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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 2:50pm

it's harder when you like a person, you are more concerned about what is going through their minds.


So true. One thing I learned, is that one thing healthy available guys seem to gravite towards is a womans self confidance and self esteem. When you're leading your own life and totally into your own things and happy- that seems to be when they are most interested in you. But I really know and understand that feeling of thinking and sometimes over thinking, trying to get into their heads. I've been there!


Sending positive vibes your way!


~Pacific~
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 3:02pm

One thing I learned, is that one thing healthy available guys seem to gravite towards is a womans self confidance and self esteem. When you're leading your own life and totally into your own things and happy- that seems to be when they are most interested in you.


I have noticed that too!

April

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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 3:27pm

I always make a point to tell him what I did for the day or weekend when he asks instead of the "nothing much"canned answer.

~Pacific~
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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 3:43pm

I am lucky that my kids don't say "nothing."

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Mon, 04-28-2008 - 4:35pm

Slow that brain down girlfriend.