Why do this to myself

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Why do this to myself
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Thu, 10-16-2008 - 8:19pm

Why do I do this to myself.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:13pm

Ok- I normally wouldn't condone this, but in this case: I think you need a good old fashioned one night stand! OMG! You NEED to get this lying sack of BS off your mind and the ONLY way to do that quickly is to get physical with someone else.

So get your condoms out and meet WW :P

The boy

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:18pm
Get online and find a date darling! You'll feel much better! Get some friends together, have a night out or stay home watch movies together and drink wine! Just keep yourself occupied. Do you have a house or an apartment? If you have a house, start a new project, if you have an apartment, find little things that might need fixin and just work on some stuff. Do whatever it takes to KEEP your mind off. That is what I'm trying to do now. I started decorating the house today for Halloween and will do a little each day. I'm planning a small pre-Halloween pumpkin carving get together with friends and kids friends, just so I can keep my mind off. I'm trying to do whatever it takes!
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:20pm
SEE????????? ALISON agrees!! Go out, get a date! Either a one night stand or a potential Friends with Benefits and forget the man. He's doing it, get him back and enjoy it! I agree GET THE CONDOMS OUT!! You need to get over it!
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Registered: 09-28-2008
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:40pm

Okay, maybe going out and hanging with the possibilty of hooking up might not be such a bad idea.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 10-16-2008 - 9:46pm
Honestly, you gotta admit.. It's better if you get emailed and you DON'T have to email or text back. This makes anyone squirm when they dont' receive a response. He'll think you didn't get it, yada yada. Now depending on your financial situation you have three options. I opt for a quick jump in the hay with using either POF or you spend thirty bucks on a little more of a quality man who will spend money on you (that's about all it's good for) and go on match.com. Either way, it'll be the ego boost you need! AND NO going on about the jerk on a first date. The man is buried and you have to leave him buried. I know it's Halloween but you don't need a dead beat. :)
Now get yourself online and send us a update by EOD tomorrow on the validation of feeling beautiful and wanted!
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Fri, 10-17-2008 - 12:21pm

Have you ever watched that movie "Never Been Kissed"? She falls asleep with her forehead resting on her hand that and woke up with a LOSER stamped on her forehead.

Everytime this guy that has DISRESPECTED you so much creeps into your mind, picture him with a big LOSER stamp on his forehead cuz that's what he is. He has no respect for you at all.

Then, go get that date or pamper yourself as much as possible. Get with people that make you laugh. Please, please, do not give this man your time.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Fri, 10-17-2008 - 1:34pm

Give yourself credit and kuddos for already NOT texting him. GREAT FIRST STEP! You can do this!!!


I think that what is going to help you through is three fold.


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