Why do they all annoy me?

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Registered: 08-23-2006
Why do they all annoy me?
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Thu, 05-08-2008 - 11:37pm
So, I had an online chat tonight with the guy from POF.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 12:26am

He has some problems.. Its not your problem Liz.. NEXT him twice.. Once for me too.


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Registered: 03-19-2008
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:14am

If youre intuition says something is a little off then most likely it is. No its not you! You dont have some sort of defect so dont blame yourself. Be picky and wait until the right one comes along. The ones who want to rush everything is a big turn off to me too.


Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 11-22-2006
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:28am
No I dont think it is you! I would next him immediately. You are so smart to be seeing his schedule and noticing that he would ditch his kids that he doesnt see as often as most good parents would like to go on a first date. Not a good sign and I would have had the same reaction as you....
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:53am
It is not you. I think this is a good sign that these ones annoy you - that would annoy me, too!
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 10:45am

Sorry to hear that, Liz!! But I wouldn't worry about the guys who annoy you. If they annoy you just in email, on the phone, or in IM... then imagine how annoyed you would be in person!!! Or married to him?!?! Yikes!!!!


If they bug you in some way, I also agree that it's your gut speaking to you- telling you to watch out. Especially when you really can pinpoint the gut feeling to something specific that he does or says.


Who ever knew that you'd need a big ol' weed whacker just for OLD?!?


~shrimpy

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"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 11:07am

Here's my thinking..... Sometimes the small things (needy profile,

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Registered: 08-23-2006
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 12:56pm

Soonee, I totally agree that it can be my mood.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Fri, 05-09-2008 - 12:59pm

and asked if I would talk to him soon.

~Pacific~