Why?!? Ex-Husband rant

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Why?!? Ex-Husband rant
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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 6:39pm

So, my ex-husband is getting married today, in fact the wedding was one hour ago. Well, we have a great relationship and get along well, and I'm happy for him. I'm jealous, but not of him or her.. I'm jealous that he's moved on with his life and I'm still spinning my wheels.. thats all. Yah know, he just joined the country club, and I just got off food stamps type thing.. sigh. Anyway!!


Anyway, I'm a tad irked at what I just got in my email. I understand that we all get along well, but why is it necessary to send me pictures of you and your new bride in your wedding duds? Why? Why would you send me a picture like that? And a picture of the view off your balcony onto the beach? I mean, thats great, its nice, she's beautiful. Can we rub it in that I'm sitting at home taking vacation time to watch the kids on your week, and watching your dog, and have no boyfriend and just recently got my heart freaking stomped on? lol


Isn't it just weird? Like, just over the line almost.


Another small rant is he wants the girls to start calling her Mimmy, and I'm going to have to put my foot down. I can't tolerate that. I like her, but I just can't go there. I told the girls that in my house she is to be called Jennifer, not Mimmy.

"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 11:06pm

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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 11:08pm
Granted, I dotn want anything to set Taz off anymore than something miniscule does - but for eg:

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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 11:10pm
How about a pic of their dog lifting his leg on their wedding photo?

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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 11:40pm
Yes!! That's the one I vote for!
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Mon, 06-23-2008 - 11:47pm
lol you guys are awesome.. i've been getting a good laugh out of this thread. Thanks :)
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."
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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 10:38am

I'm sorry I'm late to this thread, but am sending you tons of (((HUGS))).

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 10:53am

Yes, I would consider that over the line and weird.

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 12:01pm

That is rough--it gets easier!

April

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 12:30pm

see--that is what is great about being single--DATING!!

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Tue, 06-24-2008 - 12:45pm
LOL neither did mine. He was "separated" for 5 years of our 6 year marriage lol.
"I never knew what real happiness was until I got married,
and by then, it was too late."