Will he be into us, or just ME??

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Registered: 05-04-2005
Will he be into us, or just ME??
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Wed, 05-04-2005 - 6:03pm
Hey, I have been reading some of these, and I am at that stage of dating where we do go out when my son is with his father, and he'll come over when my son (age 2) is asleep, but when do I know if I am wasting my time? Meaning, he does ask questions about him a little, and we have only been dating a short while, but when do you know when to introduce; when do you know when it's time to move on with him or without him. Sorry, but this is confusing to me!! Thanks, shell

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Sun, 05-08-2005 - 9:30am

I haven't read all of the other posts, but I do know this from experience. If you're concerned that a man won't accept your child, or if you're nervous to introduce him, then that's your intuition telling you something.

I think a good rule is to wait 6 months when the child is very young. This gives you a chance to see where the relationship is headed. It allows you to know the man first and decide if this is really someone that you want meeting your child.

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