Won't spend the night??/

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Registered: 09-12-2008
Won't spend the night??/
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Wed, 09-24-2008 - 1:41pm

Ok so I need some advice! I have been seeing this guy for 6 weeks (talked two weeks before that...met online).

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Registered: 03-19-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 8:41pm

Could be he feels bad sleeping at your place with your son there and feels bad having you spend the night at his with your son at home. I had a boyfriend that was like that. He wanted to hide the fact that we were sleeping together from the kids. My kids are teens, 17 and 13. I told him they figured it out long ago, why hide it.

I think a talk is in order with him.

Laurie

anonymous
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Registered: 09-12-2008
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 8:50pm
We don't see each other when I have my son, so that is never a problem. We see each other on the night he spend the night with his Dad during the week and every other weekend.
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 9:18pm
Ok, I don't think its such a big deal but really I would just throw something out like "ok dude, not saying I'm ready for an extra toothbrush in my bathroom but you know what, how bout bacon and eggs tomorrow morning in bed?"
 
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Wed, 09-24-2008 - 9:29pm

i agree that it doesn't seem like a big deal at this point.


i prefer sleeping in my own bed, too. i guess i'm just not used to sharing a bed and blankets, etc. but if i was with someone overtime, maybe i'd get more used to it.


good luck.

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