Wow, just wow... Intimidating guy update

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Wow, just wow... Intimidating guy update
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Sun, 09-21-2008 - 8:13am

Someone breakout the fan.. cause I may need to be cooled off after this report! First of all, I can't call him intimidating man anymore. So since Rlch's German Guy is gone, we're going to snag "German". He moved here when he was a teenager from Germany. He still has the slightest bit of an accent when he really gets going with a story that just puts butterflies in my stomach its so cute!


Oh where to begin! Well, this was the most amazing short little coffee date EVER! I was so nervous when I pulled up I didn't even want to get out of my car! We met for coffee over on his perfect little nook of town that intimidates me! lol. I was on my way to work, and in my scrubs and had all my gear on LOL. I walked up towards the coffee shop and I could see him with his back facing me, I knew it was him. I leaned over the fence and said "pst!" haha. He turned around and gave me the sweetest longest hug ever! I can't remember ever getting a hug that sweet and that long! We walked into the coffee shop together, and he held the door for me, then reached down and held my hand. I was thinking omg are you kidding me? Is this guy to good to be true or WHAT? The entire thing was ladies first, manners all the way, chair pulled out, doors opened.. I was wowed.


When we got our coffee we went back outside to the table he had on the patio where he left his jacket. Well, we sit down and he pulls out a bouquet of flowers out from under his jacket! Now, these were not just ANY flowers!! He goes grocery shopping for his mother every Saturday, and he told her he had a date that day. She told him to go pick some flowers out of her garden for me! So he picked some pretty lavendar flowers, then went to the grocery store and put some babies breath around them and had them wrapped up. OMG!! He was so proud that he arranged them all himself haha. Since I'm working the next four days (12 hours a day) I put them in water at work so we're all enjoying them there :)


At one point I tripped over my tongue, and I said I'm sorry I'm just really nervous! He said Oh I am too! And I remembered seeing his hand shake a bit when I first got there, and just thought I was imagining it haha.


Anyway, so the conversation was wonderful, eye contact was amazing, hands held on and off the entire time, and I had another great and wonderful long hug goodbye. I'm such a dork.. as he's hugging me I said "You're smelling my hair aren't you?" He laughed and said yes. It was all just great! The entire time it felt like we were the only two people on earth... work? I have to go to work? What work?! lol.. I hated to leave I was having such a great time.


He is so handsome, so polite, has the most amazing smile, and really just a beautiful person inside and out I'm seeing. I had to attach a picture so you all can see.. I really do need to be fanned off here. This short little date left my head spinning, me smiling all night long at work! What really has me excited about this one is that there are no "buts" (YET!! lol). There's no bad timing of a recent separation, or crazy school schedule... we're both in the exact same place wanting the exact same things. So at least the foundation is there that I have not had recently with men I've dated. I'm really excited to see how this one plays out. Wow, just wow!


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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 1:10pm
Oh totally creep vibe!
The boy

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 6:11pm
LOL.. just told my ex about this date and situation. He said no joke "Is he european or something?" LOL
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Registered: 03-25-2002
Mon, 09-22-2008 - 6:31pm

i agree with you that he sounds like he'll be single forever with his attitude.


You are better off moving on and moving up!!


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Registered: 03-19-2008
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 4:58am

This guy needs to give it more of a chance. I think more often than not that loves doesnt happen at first sight. The ones who are looking for that are expecting miracles. Love takes time and could come after being acquaintances, friends first. Finding an 'all around great person' is the perfect place to start.

Laurie

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Registered: 10-24-2006
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 12:18pm
I loved that update!!! And he's very handsome!

 

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Tue, 09-23-2008 - 2:38pm
When someone tells you who they are believe them.

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