Wow! Really? I can't believe this

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Wow! Really? I can't believe this
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Fri, 08-22-2008 - 9:30pm
I can't really believe this is happening.
 
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 11:14am
No, no update yet.
 
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 11:23am
Yep, HUGE bummer.
 
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 11:28am

I'm glad you sound like you are handling this well and not freaking out. Good job.


Hoping he calls soon with a good explanation... but like i said, good for you for taking it in stride and being patient.


We could all learn from how you are handling it today.


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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 12:00pm
Is there any way to find out if he's ok? I find it all very strange from your explanation. Maybe he got really badly hurt. That once happened to my X. I thought he stood me up, because we had a date and on his way to pick me up, he had a bad accident. Since then I always get so worried when I don't hear from someone in time or at all. When was the last time you talked to him?
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 1:43pm
Man, I hope and pray he wasn't in an accident or the kids.
 
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 2:04pm

No drunken lawn mowing!!!! Not only will you get hurt, but you'll have to explain the curse words you mowed into the lawn to your neighbors!

I feel your pain. Mr. Summer Romance, who prior to this week texted me back within minutes or called every couple of days, has gone completely silent after our "talk". This, from a guy who kept telling me I should be more open talking about my feelings! Like a jerk I texted last night, saying "please give me a call" and no response.

What irks the most is that for someone who took pride in himself for doing the "right thing" by people, complained about previous dating experiences where people were not very nice, the cold shoulder thing is so weird. But if that is how he plays the game, then he is not the person he claimed to be.

As I said before, in this day of multiple ways to communicate without facing the other person, I think it is only fair that people give others the heads up if and when they don't want to keep going on.

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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 5:35pm

I didnt realize you had left him a message last nite .... but that was just to see when he was coming over, correct? Not to say "what happened?"

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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 6:07pm
Gosh, ((((HUGS)))) to you, Soccer Mom.
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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 8:38pm

"If I was you? I would wait until Sunday, & then I would call his cell 1 more time. I would say "Hi, Im sorry if for some reason you are trying to avoid me, but this is very out of character for you & now Im getting concerened. At the very least, could you please e/text/call me just to let me know you arent injured or were in some sort of emergency? Thanks"

What a great way to do it. I would have used this for Mr. Summer Romance but I deleted all his numbers from my phone! Still can't decide if it is worth it or not. Probably not...but I'll remember the speech for the next time! :-P

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Sat, 08-23-2008 - 9:44pm
I totally agree with Rebecca! If he's never done this before then I think it's ok to double check tomorrow.