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| Tue, 07-10-2007 - 10:04am |
Okay, this is just freaking ridiculous. I think I am going to just stay single for the rest of my life.
The other guy I told you all about, the guy I graduated high school with that has primary custody of his 2 daughters, is pushing the envelope a little here. I'll call him E. Sunday I was tired from having the ex-cop over and I needed to do homework before I went to pick up my son. Well, E sent me a text around 11:30 saying that he was going driving up in the mountains and wanted to know if he could pick me up. I thought about it and told him that I still needed to take a shower but I thought it would be nice. Then he writes that he would be on his way. I sent one back saying "Whoa"! I mean, it's going to take longer than 20 minutes for me to get ready which is how far he lives away from me. I then told him to just go on without me and made up an excuse of my mom and brother coming over to get stuff out of my basement for the yardsale we are having this weekend. Which we ARE having one but they weren't coming over. Well then he proceeds to tell me that he will just stop by then because he would be out my way.
Okay, two things wrong with this....1) he is inviting himself over and 2) he doesn't know where I live but is willing to find it. He knows the general vacinity but I haven't come out and given my address! I live in the country so it's not like houses are easy to find. Soooo, I told him that it would definintely be a surprise. Well, my brother DID come over later but he was spraying weeds for me with this solution he had and then he left. Meanwhile, I parked my car BEHIND my house so that he wouldn't be able to see it and find my house. He DOES know what I drive.
So I talk to him yesterday and he said he went by my house Sunday but there were no cars there unless I parked my car behind the house. What????!!!!!!!! He said "your house doesn't face the street parallel it is kind of turned a little and you have purple swingset in the back right?" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I said, it was blue. Well then I made the excuse that I had probably pulled around back so that I could wash my car or that I was packing up stuff in the trunk. Good cover right? lol
I just don't know WHAT possessed him to go around looking for MY HOUSE!!!!!!!!! I mean, I know where he lives but I'm not going to stalk him. I can't believe that he went searching for my house and I'm sure he saw my car in the back but just wanted to see what I would say maybe to catch me in a lie. I don't appreciate that. If I wanted him to know the exact location of my house I would have invited him over!
Where in the hell do I find these people??????!!!!!!! I'm about this "__" close to NEXTing BOTH him and the ex-cop.
Jennifer - whose nerves are shot!

Oooo ooo ooo...
That is exactly what I'm thinking Alison! Also, can you say trust issues??? I know I used to have trust issues but that was before I "found" myself and became more confident in myself.
Geez....
Jennifer
Yeah- I'm not even sure it's trust issues- I think it's more STALKER issues!
Yikes! He sounds way too over bearing...inviting himself over, driving by your home, giving you the old eagle eye...that is just way too creepy. Sounds like he needs a life. It's too bad you weren't sitting out front enjoying a drink and a chat with your brother, maybe he would have thought you were with another man and just moved on!
Rose
That is hilarious Rose! lol Yes, it was unnerving to say the least. I haven't heard from him today. He called 2x yesterday but I didn't answer. This week as been the week from hell for me so I haven't been in a good mood.
Next time I will have my brother over for a drink. lol He's 24 and would be more than happy for his big sis to fix him a mixed drink or give him a free beer! lol
Jennifer
See....! Family can come in very very handy sometimes! Let us know how you make out with E and the Ex-cop. Hopefully your week soon takes a turn for the better.
Remember....It's hard to soar like an eagle when you are surrounded by turkey's!
Rose ;0