WTF?!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
WTF?!
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Thu, 04-26-2007 - 12:12am

I would like ANYONE'S impression of this and what in the heck does this mean?

MR S:
Subject: Hey Gorgeous
Hey I just wanted to say hi and to say that I haven't forgotten about ya I have just been busy. I hope to get together with you again soon.

MY RESPONSE:
Hey :) It's always good to hear from you. Just let me know when you're available.

MR. S:
Alright alright alright. *insert smiley face here that is called "excited" but kind of looks like someone raising their eyes sarcastically*

Here is my thing...is he excited or is it a sarcastic smiley that i imagined what he intended? my first impression is that he was tryingn to say "alright alright alright" like "slow down! relax!"..........am i completly misinterpretting this.

I feel like a freak. Am I really basing my judgement on a smiley?!?!

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Registered: 11-03-2003
In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 12:14am

I'd loved to over analyze this for you

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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 1:14am

He also had another questionable response after our date. I sent him an email that said I had a good time and let's see what happens next time (cause my car got rear-ended) and his response was "we shall see my dear".

I called a friend who is a boy and he says...he's obviously a psychotic....lol. I just want to make sure I'm not doing anything weird that prompts this kind of weird behavior!

ah well....I must hit the hay!

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Registered: 02-08-2006
In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 7:14am

where did it go from there? How did you respond? Was this email or IM?

I doubt he intended it as a sarcastic smiley, but I don't know him. I think you should just see where this goes.

On a side note- I've based my judgement on where on a myspace friends list I was placed. How's that for overanalyzing?!

Moody, who's as bid an overthinker as anyone


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In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 8:50am

I think he is just being silly.

I wouldn't read anything into it yet - wait and see if he wants to set up a date or if he is just stringing you along while he figures stuff out.

One thing I have noticed - is that late at night a lot of guys get lonely and they just want to IM and chat - find a pretty face - don't care who they are or where the live - just chat. So I guess the difficult thing to decide is if you are a penpal or a date they want to pursue.

Technology makes our lives more tricky!! :-)

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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 9:11am
Okkk, we could TOTALLY analyze this. Matter of fact I'd probably wouldn't have slept with my over analyzing that often drives me incredibly insane. HOWEVER. I say, enough is enough. No more IM's, chat, emails or otherwise. You said what you said to him and let him come back to you on it. One thing that would drive me insane, is a guy that writes: alright, alright, alright.
What is that?? see? I'm already starting. LOL
Magic dust that the guy is really nice and a psycho. :)
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Registered: 02-05-2007
In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 11:12am

You guys are awesome...Ya I'm just gonna let it lie and if he wants to pursue it then he will. I'm not going to drive myself insane over someone I hardly know. But what freakin weird responses! I just wanted to make sure that I wasn't presenting myself in a weird manner to get such wacked out responses....

oh my...isn't this fun! ;)

~ Caryn

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Registered: 04-08-2003
In reply to: drgnflygrl
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 11:19am
Hey Caryn,
I don't know girl, I've received some WIERD emails or Texts in my past. And EVERYTIME they are somewhat similiar to yours, the situation doesn't work out. They seem to be more players then not. Of course this may not be your situation, but I don't believe in those text relationship only. No reason he can't pick up the phone to say Hi, if he is already taking the time to write the darn text. GRRR. It makes me think they just aren't serious. However, like I said, don't make another move. Let him come to you now and see what happens. Can't wait to find out when he contacts you next.