X saw Psyc & Psyc called me w/ report ..

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X saw Psyc & Psyc called me w/ report ..
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Fri, 11-02-2007 - 11:36pm

At 1st i was a little nervous b/c he had only positive things to say. I was worried that X had him bamboozeled. But basically here is the gist ...

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 7:31am

Wow rlch, this certainly sounds like a good start. I am so glad that you finally got xh to go to the psyc. Hopefully your xh will start to work out his issues and become a better father. It sounds to me like he is still very bitter about your divorce. It will always be a mystery to us all about how he can have such bad behavior and think it was okay on how he treated you and that you should have stayed married to someone like that.

It is great that you feel you have control over the situation and can withhold visitation when he is not treating DD right. That has to be a huge relief for you.

Hopefully more good things will come of this. Is your exh going to continue to see the psyc on a regular basis? Or is his next meeting with you and him? I am hoping that the psyc will see him frequently by himself.

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 8:17am

Well- his response was in 1 email: "NO!"

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 10:47am

People like your X totally boggle my mind. Not seeing your own child just because you're angry at the other parent. It is impossible for me to wrap my brain around that.

The sister he speaks of, is that the one that you get along with and that stayed with you not very long ago? It may be an attempt to talk to her for contact (if she's willing that is) would possibly be a start. Sounds like he has lots and lots of anger to get under control. Hopefully, your X will allow the psych to help him get a handle on things.

HUGS TO YOU & AVERY!

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 11:37am

Sorry Im laughing. B/c yes, that IS his sister, Terry, who is Aves Godmother, who totally

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 11:50am
He is totally off his rocker and needs to be beat over the head with a REALITY book! You poor thing. And how funny that you mixed up the "Terrys" - LOL!! At least we can have a bit of humor with this, right?
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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 11:53am
I know! He must have been FURIOUS i was sending everything to his sister! roflmao

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 12:10pm
That is pretty funny. But if he walked his life with a good manner and good deeds, then anything you sent to his sister would be GOOD and not ridiculous like what he is pulling. He has to learn "consequences"!!
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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 6:05pm

Well, I was thinking that she lived away from you, but then I thought maybe I was wrong! lol!

He definitely needs some serious therapy time.

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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 8:04pm
Did the sister Terry say anything to you about getting the emails?



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Sat, 11-03-2007 - 10:10pm
No - she wouldnt. I sent her a quick email about the confusion. Plus, she only checks her email a few times a week.

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