Yikes! time to meet

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Yikes! time to meet
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 9:39am

Now

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Registered: 09-12-2007
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:25pm

well to let you know i just recently went through this situation myself.Also I have to have this thing I call the phone test I have to hear how they sound before I meet them in person, plus it gives me a chance to ask any questions I need to know so I have something to go off of when we meet in person.

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 3:41pm

I do have a hard time keeping track with women I have not met yet.

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 4:42pm
(what was it that shrimpy said before--they are just people with penises...)

Oh yikes... will that end up on my gravestone?!??


LOL!!! Yes, or maybe "people with breadstick parts....."


I'm cracking up. Shrimps, you are so cute..I'm thinking of Ninja Mouse, Nuked Peeps and Bread Penises. All Shrimpy trademarks!!

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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 4:44pm
LOL!!!!!!
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 4:54pm

It's crazy that I can be so nutty sometimes... and I'm with Hiker, who can be so not-goofy most of the time! I guess we balance each other out. lol


He finds the penis breadstick amusing though. hehe and we still make all sorts of sexual innuendos around all of that. ;-)


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 05-15-2008 - 4:57pm
It's the same way with EG and I.
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Thu, 05-15-2008 - 10:07pm

Ah... yes.. part 2 of the assignment from that book i mentioned..


Take the pressure OFF... you are NOT interviewing your next boyfriend or potential husband.. NO WAY..


You are enjoying the company of someone else... talking about what interests you... enjoying a dinner or movie or couple drinks... enjoying the moment... i repeat NOT interviewing.. lol....


This part of dating i got very good at... (so i look forward to getting back to it)... it's not even about getting a second date.. it's about being open, being yourself, discovering something new about yourself and someone new.. i like to think of it as a gift to the other person... he doesn't owe me anything (except maybe buying.. but not even that..lol). Your time and your presence is a gift to him.... shine a light and share a smile... if you've done that.. then it's a great date... regardless!!!!


That's how i'm starting to feel better about TG, too.. i'm starting to think of it as a gift.. not that he owes me something.. i won't go back (because i'm not a doormat) but i know that it's okay that it didn't last long.. i can smile again and remember the fun times... especially the night in the ER...


I look forward to the dating stories to come... (cuz sometimes it's about the story ....not the ending..lol)


Loonybunny

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 9:31am

OMG - you are a ROYAL RIOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks for a good laugh to start the day!! LOL!!!!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Fri, 05-16-2008 - 9:51am
Wow Loony your positive attitude just shines and you are right that we are to have fun and enjoy the moment!

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