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| Sun, 11-16-2008 - 5:16pm |
So today, Sunday, I finally hear back from the guy I er, um, went a little far with on Tuesday. SUNDAY. This is after a sent an email (since I left three messages that never got answered) saying, hey, what is going on, I haven't heard from you and would just like to know what is going on...
This afternoon I get the MOST hostile email back saying how offended he was at my overanalyzing and how DARE I want him to call me on MY schedule, he had a cold (I guess that means you can't pick up the phone?), I'm rude, that I am a total turn-off to him now, Good-bye! He chides me for not having said "hello" first, but I guess four phone messages saying "Hi, hope you are feeling better, give me a call" don't count.
Now, mind you, the guy has been on the website on which we "met" tons, including the evening after we had done the deed. I had started sending an email (didn't finish or send), so I had to log onto the site, and I could see the exact times he was on. Yeah, that feels good. So yes, he did return a phone call on Thursday, left a message, but didn't pick up the phone Thursday, Friday, or Saturday. I left a message on Thursday and one on Friday, then gave up.
So, in his world, you sleep with a woman, don't make much of an attempt to get in touch for several days afterward, and when she wants to know 4 or 5 days later what is up, she is rude, pushy and overbearing. Wowza.

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So TRUE!!! Isn't it odd how that suddenly works?? At first they are SOO into you and you think, he's so into me, even if we do the deed early on, he'll stick. In MOST cases, NOT true. Their are a few but reality is, OLD gives too many options for men to play. And it is a game for a lot of them.
When you don't have sex for a long time and someone suddenly wants you, it isn't your fault that you want to jump in the hay. It's just freaking the need of another human contact. FWB's are helpful in this manner. Always take a guy that you KNOW is not relationship material. NEVER EVER have a FWB that has a potential for more. Otherwise, you'll begin telling yourself their is a possibility and emotions start coming into the factor. NOT GOOD. Take a guy that drives you crazy and is sooo unlike you, that the only thing good is the sex and the rest is just crap. :)
I wasn't even sure what I wanted with this guy, which is why I was sort of shocked that I jumped in the sack with him so fast. Sooo unlike me.
I don't feel bad having done it, I was more concerned that he was going to think I did this all the time, but in the end it doesn't matter, does it? Actually, the rage in his e-mail was so extreme, all about him, that he would probably have been very controlling and hard to deal with anyway.
It's amazing how some people think only about themselves. The thing that cracks me up is one of his excuses for not calling was that he had a cold. Hell, I had the same cold and managed to call HIM several time! Plus, he didn't like that I wanted him to call on "my timeframe", hello FIVE days later? That is a problem?
Sort of scary if you think of it.
Thanks to everyone for the support.
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