You won't believe this!!

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You won't believe this!!
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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 3:16pm

I may have to change my answer to Ashley's quiz.

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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 6:23pm

Good for you!!!

Jenn ~~~ mom to Ashley & Elliott ~~~

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Registered: 03-30-2008
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 7:58pm

Wow! This is all positive, huh? Seems like he's making an effort. I like that. Will you get to see him any other time this weekend?


Enjoy your time together tonight! :)

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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 8:01pm
Hey there now we're talking, right? As silly as it seems, sometimes when you get busier it makes them spin around looking for you a bit? Being ultra available sounds like a good thing but sometimes it backfires with guys. They are really into the chase - it must be in the wiring!!
Enjoy!!
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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 8:22pm
Actually, we had already made plans for him to come down Saturday night.
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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 8:33pm
I really didn't think this would happen.
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Registered: 03-30-2008
Fri, 01-23-2009 - 8:36pm

Yay!


Absence (or the idea of absence) makes the heart grow fonder, huh? I'm happy for you!

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Fri, 01-23-2009 - 11:08pm

Yah as well. If you want the behavior to continue then make sure you positively reinforce the behavior at that time when demonstrated.

Good luck!
Mark





We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb







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Sat, 01-24-2009 - 3:09pm
Thanks for the reminder Mark.
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Sun, 01-25-2009 - 10:30am
Backing off really works, doesn't it. I can understand your feeling like it is game playing a little bit. But some people don't realize how good they have it until they think it might be gone. Plus, I think, establishing your independence periodically is good for you, too.
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Sun, 01-25-2009 - 5:00pm

the backing off approach, huh.. well i'm taking that advice today. and it's not easy, let me tell you... i feel like if i back off then the other person will move on...


but today i'm thinking.. let him me miss a little. let him go. and if he returns then there is substance to the relationship... if not, then it's truly time to move on.


sweetk, i'm happy for the positive steps.


Loonybunny


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