You'll never guess....Mr. S update
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| Wed, 05-16-2007 - 6:00pm |
So after I get the most bizarre of responses back from my last email to him (My email: Always nice to hear from you. Just let me know when you're available. HIS reply: ALRIGHT ALRIGHT ALRIGHT) I get a text last night:
"Hey, nice new pics! Hi Caryn I want to see you again. I have yet 2 have a good conversation since we last met."
I kinda figured it was Mr. S but since I had lost all my contacts on my phone I sent back a text asking who it was. An hour later he replys with his name. Anyway, he ends up calling me. We talk about his trip to Vegas...I share a story of my company convention in South Beach...blah blah blah..."So we need to get together" he says. He also says how this weekend isn't good for him or I. So I tell him that in 2 weeks I'll be available (when I dont' have the girls). He's kind of shocked and half way says that he'll call me in the next two weeks.
So i need opinions.....Do you think he's gonna call and if he does....Do I give this guy a second chance? We did have chemistry, he's a bit older and has a good job, all pluses. It just kinda feels like I'm the consellation prize or something, am I overthinking this??

I agree with Judy- wait and see if he calls.
Give him until next wed to call for the weekend, and if he doesn't call, then go ahead and make plans elsewhere- and then if he calls, see him ONLY if you have time- but be sure to let him know you're really booked already :)
I had a guy- Beemer, I think was the nickname I gave him here- who contacted me a LONG time ago- like ayear. A couple of emails, then nothing. I wasn't worried about it- I was busy OLD then, and didn't have time to worry about one ghost.
Then several months ago, he emails again, out of the blue. I was in a lull, and had time, so we met for lunch. Lunch was good, the conversation was great, no major red flags. He asked me out again, but I was busy, then he went out of town.
He did call when he came back, but I had already made plans, and he said he'd call again. I met funnyguy before he called again, and the last time he did, it was a couple of weeks ago.
He didn't call for over two months, and thought I would be waiting around for him?! I realized when I told him I was in an exclusive relationship that I wouldn't have gone on another date with him even if I wasn't.
There was nothing wrong with him- good job, good car, had his "ducks in a row", but not into me enough to keep up regular contact. I think he was interested in very casual dating or an activities partner, and I am interested in a relationship.
My opinion for you with Mr S is that he's probably at the same place. He may very well like what he know of you so far, but he's still dating, and looking, and will call you when he's not busy meeting someone else.
If you go, I would go knowing that, and fully planning to date others, too. The last thing you need with these men is to be sitting around, but if YOU have nothing better to do, it could be a fun time. Think of him as a diversion, and enjoy it for that.
If you're looking for something more serious, I wouldn't wager any money at all on Mr S.
Moody, done with playing the field
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